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Betas/nice guys vs. alphas and women : ever had a friend with benefits?


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Life isn't fair to anyone. No matter who you are, there will always be someone "better" than you or someone who has it "better" than you.

 

Why not go out and do it for yourself, rather than sitting back, crying the blues? Why be so envious and jealous of others, when that energy could be better spent in self improvement?

 

I_just_don't_get_it. :confused:

 

I was being sarcastic. ;)

 

I knew since I was a child that life isn't meant to be fair. It's a shame it took me so long to realize what I was doing that held my life back in many ways, and now to claim my life for me and my own...and not wonder or think less of myself for being alone.

 

And like how things seem to always work...that's when I met Ms Right.

 

 

I may sound mean and harsh here, but I guess being nice wasn't helping these guys so maybe a sharp kick in the butt would. I dunno. I personally think it's within all these guys to claim their lives and make themselves happy in life (and thus magically find the women taking notice), but they seem to like wallowing in self-pity more.

 

It's a shame, especially with all the lonely single women out there who hate being alone, but aren't going to settle for a doormat whiner. They're not all seeking bad boys and alphas...just a guy with a backbone and some love for himself as a person.

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Guys, guys, this is all one MASSIVE troll attempt. Look at the evidence. Come on.

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It just seems awfully convenient that you show up right as beta starts unleashing his onslaught of self-deprecating topics.

 

EDIT: Ah, I see the link was posted on another forum.

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It's not a troll. Check this out:

 

 

http://www.campidiot.com/ci/viewtopic.php?id=306207&p=1

 

Do a search for a user called veggieburger_manlet; it's the same poster.

 

Also, go to: http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/

 

Look for a user called MadDogUK or also Kugoddam. That is him as well. He has well over 2000+ posts there. He got BANNED because people got tired of giving him advice that he refused to take.

 

Wow, this guy is really getting to some of you. You have gone to the extent of researching him online.:lmao: He probably is gloating as he sits behind computer and reads your post.

 

I don't get how he is allowed to make up all these threads, and continue to talk about the same thing over and over... :confused:

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Usually when "another person shows up out of nowhere with information" in conjunction with some other high-activity event, it's indicative of a troll trying to further set up additional attempts to generate controversy.

 

Either way, troll or not, betamanlet is clearly after the attention (either positive or negative) and doesn't really care about the advice people give him. I figured that as a lawyer he would understand that he's committing a huge fallacy of confirmation bias (amongst a dozen other fallacies) and yet he doesn't even respond to the claim.

 

The only thing we can do is suggest he get professional help if he is indeed the real deal, but otherwise trying to help him on this board is likely futile. He just doesn't want to listen to any of it.

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Guys, guys, this is all one MASSIVE troll attempt. Look at the evidence. Come on.

 

 

It seems a Loveshack member is also a member of another forum and this guy recognized BetaMan as a member of this other forum and has been outing BetaMan (his own claim) not only here but on this other forum too.

 

The publicity has probably inspired the other forum members to come here to check out the drama and contribute to it.

 

A big troll? Maybe they want to get Loveshack members to look at their forum but if that were the case then why would they troll with such a detestable personality such as BetaMan? If he is any indication of what this other forum is about then I highly doubt anyone will want to follow him there.

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Something tells me the answers to this will speak VOLUMES about who women find sexually appealing, and it's not going ot be nice guys, that's for sure. So I can say with absolute clarity, I have NEVER had a FWB arrangement, the few sexual experiences I have have been from allegedly committed relationships.

Sigh, this is getting so tedious reading posts from young men whining because women won't let them use their bodies for cheap sex. So you want to be a playah? Too dang bad, because most of us don't want that kind of relationship, and you're not even nice enough to be trusted in a LTR, because you'd be trying to play with someone else, even if you weren't successful at it. What kind of man does that make you?

 

I did have to wonder though--you mentioned being on the autism spectrum? Do you have autism or Asperger's? If so, you really do have to try harder, and you won't ever be a player, but you may be able to find a relationship with a nice lady if you ever learn how to treat them. I have ADD which sometimes makes a person have poor social skills, so I got help for it, and I still have to try a lot harder than the average person, but I'm not bitter against men for any reason. I just know that the man I end up with will be rather unique, which is fine with me--and I will not be getting into any FWB relationships, alpha male or not.

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Thanks v g. I don't post clear pics of myself for very long. Have a Merry Christmas...hohoho! :bunny:

 

Well, it was a nice one. Have a Merry Christmas too!

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Oh, I'm the real hqc alright.

 

I dated betamanlet for a while, a short time. But after I realized he had issues, I felt guilty just breaking up with him, so I kept dating him for a short time.

 

About a week later or so, we were at a party and I saw a guy I wanted to be with. So I just dumped him on the spot for this other guy. I even made betamanlet drive me and this new guy back to my place, in a blizzard, so that I could have wild sex with him, and while I was in the house with the new guy, betamanlet sat outside my place and cried in his car.

 

Umm, the real hqc (who dated him) once described the relationship as an outfit that fit poorly. She tried on something else. The real hqc would not devote the effort to troll him. The real hqc has her betamanlet stories straight. The girl who left him at a party was KAC, not you.

 

TRY AGAIN..

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Umm, the real hqc (who dated him) once described the relationship as an outfit that fit poorly. She tried on something else. The real hqc would not devote the effort to troll him. The real hqc has her betamanlet stories straight. The girl who left him at a party was KAC, not you.

 

TRY AGAIN..

 

 

Like I said, it appears this other forum has followed him here.

 

By the way DrifterBee, earlier in the thread this hqc poster said he was a Loveshack member for a while before getting banned when your friend showed up here and he outed him.

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