skydiveaddict Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 on new years eve i will read mystery method. you do not need to do that buy a motorcycle , skydive, hit the weight room. be the man of confidence that you KNOW you can be. dont waste another second being a 'beta " male. you have it in you, so just go for it life's too short
Buckeye Candy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I'm just stating reality. I'm sure others who live where i do can verify this. The question is, should I move? Probably yes, but my work is limited to here un fortunately. You are choosing to be stuck in this rut. Your view point is narrow and colored by your defeatest attitude. Everything out of your mouth is an excuse to not do something different. Pack your bags and go. Would you rather spend the next 20 years miserable or would you rather take a a risk and go somewhere else? Your life, your choice. I'm not going to offer you any more advice until you take a step forward. Good luck.
threebyfate Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I've never had an FWB. What for? There's no friendship or caring, just use/use. Of the alphas I've dated, it's auto-eject if they've ever had an FWB or ONS.
Chicago_Guy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Yet it's the betas who have to support and raise the child. Because you pick thugs to father the children, then act all "shocked" when he wants to bang other women and not raise his kids. Betamanlet, only a complete idiot/loser would marry a promiscuous woman who had given birth to children fathered by a so-called "alpha" and raise her children.
D-Jam Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 WAAAAH WAAAAH WAAAAH Why can't life be fair??? Blah Blah Blah
threebyfate Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 WAAAAH WAAAAH WAAAAH Why can't life be fair??? Blah Blah BlahLife isn't fair to anyone. No matter who you are, there will always be someone "better" than you or someone who has it "better" than you. Why not go out and do it for yourself, rather than sitting back, crying the blues? Why be so envious and jealous of others, when that energy could be better spent in self improvement? I_just_don't_get_it.
shadowplay Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I've never had an FWB. What for? There's no friendship or caring, just use/use. Of the alphas I've dated, it's auto-eject if they've ever had an FWB or ONS. Really? I mean don't a lot of guys go through this phase when they're young and mature out of it?
Chicago_Guy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 The effiminate guys are probably gay. plenty of gay closeted men get married (see various politicians) and the women want them because they want someone they cannot have. Hence why married men are so desirable to so many women, because they aren't emotionally available. Gay men aren't either. So it's a HUGE challenge/drama for her. Ugly guys could be alphas or rich. Every "wimpy" guy I know who has a woman gets walked all over, she has zero respect for him, and cheats left and right, and he just takes it. Any man who stays with a woman who treats him like crap and cheats on him is a total loser and must have very low self-esteem.
threebyfate Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Really? I mean don't a lot of guys go through this phase when they're young and mature out of it?Some do, some don't. I've always been really, really picky about how many people they've slept with.
shadowplay Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I've had two flings that might qualify as fwbs. One was over five years ago ago when I was young and inexperienced. We never had sex; just heavy petting. The other was about two years ago and short-lived. In both cases the guys wanted a relationship, but I wasn't interested for different reasons. Both I feel were huge mistakes, as they felt completely empty and icky.
shadowplay Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Some do, some don't. I've always been really, really picky about how many people they've slept with. out of curiosity what number of sexual partners do you consider too many for a guy over thirty? I also wouldn't date a guy with a high count, but I wouldn't know where to draw the line. I guess anything over ten would seem like a lot.
threebyfate Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 out of curiosity what number of sexual partners do you consider too many for a guy over thirty? I also wouldn't date a guy with a high count, but I wouldn't know where to draw the line. I guess anything over ten would seem like a lot.That's up to you to define. Better to look at their historical relationship pattern and also, whether they're always the dumper or always being dumped. Also, the numbers will vary, reliant on age. As the decades clock off, so will their numbers.
v g Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I'm just stating reality. I'm sure others who live where i do can verify this. The question is, should I move? Probably yes, but my work is limited to here un fortunately. Betamanlet, you remind me of a woman once knew. She was so envious of my figure and thought I was so lucky, as if I didn't have to work at it. Last time I saw her, she had no neck. It went straight from her chin to her collar bone. *shiver* I asked her if she exercises. 'No, I don't have time.' Hmm. I shared with her how I make time, how she could make time. Then there was another excuse why she couldn't exercise. When I countered that excuse, she had another excuse. We got up to 10 excuses when I gave up. That woman was NEVER, EVER going to exercise, EVER. The excuses will never end. She's not figuring out how to make it happen. She's working on all the reasons she can't make it happen. Betamanlet, your excuses will never end. You're not figuring out how to make it happen. You're working on all the reasons you can't make it happen. I hope you prove me wrong. As Buckeye Candy wrote, 'Life is what you make of it.'
v g Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Completely off topic, TBF, that's a great photo.
threebyfate Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Thanks v g. I don't post clear pics of myself for very long. Have a Merry Christmas...hohoho!
Buckeye Candy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I was driving home and thought of this idea and I wanted to suggest it to you since it seems a constructive albeit corny social experiment. Go to a large store like Target and pick a random aisle to browse through. Pick up an item off the shelf and ask the nearest person (man or woman) if they think it would make a good gift for a co-worker or whomever. Try to make the conversation last as long as possible before saying thank you for your help. Eg: In housewares aisle pick up a bathroom scale and turn to the person nearest you and say,"Excuse me. Do you think my grandmother would like this for Christmas?" Say whatever is appropriate or inappropriate if you are feeling silly. Try to make the conversation last! Eg: In the DVD aisle pick up a copy of Hostel and turn to whoever nearest and say, "Excuse me. Do you think a seven year old would like this as a gift?" Repeat this in different aisles until you have spoken with at least a dozen different people. This is good time of year to do it since many shoppers are out and about. Be friendly, smile (maybe sheepishly) and say thank you. Why do this? Just to experiment outside of your comfort zone. Call it a crash course in social interaction. Do this and get back to me with detailed results and we'll go from there. Good luck.
Sam Spade Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Or "Which digital camcorder is best suited for homemade porn videos?";). Overall, not a bad idea. You got to look the beast in the eye and show him (her) you ain't afraid:).
Buckeye Candy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Or "Which digital camcorder is best suited for homemade porn videos?";). Overall, not a bad idea. You got to look the beast in the eye and show him (her) you ain't afraid:). LMAO I still do things like this from time to time just for fun. I've made some friends around town this way.
Throne Of Lies Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I was driving home and thought of this idea and I wanted to suggest it to you since it seems a constructive albeit corny social experiment. Go to a large store like Target and pick a random aisle to browse through. Pick up an item off the shelf and ask the nearest person (man or woman) if they think it would make a good gift for a co-worker or whomever. Try to make the conversation last as long as possible before saying thank you for your help. Eg: In housewares aisle pick up a bathroom scale and turn to the person nearest you and say,"Excuse me. Do you think my grandmother would like this for Christmas?" Say whatever is appropriate or inappropriate if you are feeling silly. Try to make the conversation last! Eg: In the DVD aisle pick up a copy of Hostel and turn to whoever nearest and say, "Excuse me. Do you think a seven year old would like this as a gift?" Repeat this in different aisles until you have spoken with at least a dozen different people. This is good time of year to do it since many shoppers are out and about. Be friendly, smile (maybe sheepishly) and say thank you. Why do this? Just to experiment outside of your comfort zone. Call it a crash course in social interaction. Do this and get back to me with detailed results and we'll go from there. Good luck. This is a good idea, and I would recommend it also. While it is probably too late in the season for this, consider volunteering as a Salvation Army Bell Ringer. You have to get comfortable with being perky and smiley to total strangers quickly, and you will loose that programmed discomfort quickly. They approach you (since you are near an entrance) and you can just radiate positive energy at them. Plus, the added bonus is when you go out in the future, there is a good chance you will bump into girls that saw you out doing that, so they know that you aren't a totally horrible person. Bonus.
seibert253 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 relax mate, I know several women who are either dating or are married to betas. and having something on the side with their boss, mechanic, pool boy, or lawn care specialist. Or their "girls night outs" consist of giving some young complete jerk a BJ in HER car, while hubby is home watching the kids.
Buckeye Candy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Hey, buddy. Please don't post this in all of his threads and have them deleted by the Admin. I want him to read and try out the social experiment. Thx
DrifterBee Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Another interesting that I would like to mention, is that betamanlet has his own WEBSITE!! He has his own forum: http://www.loserkibbutz.com/ It is hilarious, check it out and you will see that everything I mention above is true. I wonder if this is the REAL hqc..
BUENG1 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 (edited) Never mind... Edited December 24, 2009 by BUENG1
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