betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Something tells me the answers to this will speak VOLUMES about who women find sexually appealing, and it's not going ot be nice guys, that's for sure. So I can say with absolute clarity, I have NEVER had a FWB arrangement, the few sexual experiences I have have been from allegedly committed relationships.
tkgirl Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 when are you going to realize that you are not a "nice guy"? to me, a "nice guy" is someone who is genuine... meaning he knows who he is, who does really care about other people and life, is not at all self-absorbed, but is still confident and strong.. to me, he's a total catch! I would be happy to find a guy like that and even reconsider my stance on the FWB thing for him... or course with the hope that it would lead to something more! seriously beta... stop feeling so sorry for yourself that you are this "nice guy" that keeps getting sh*t on... in other words, grow up!!
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 when are you going to realize that you are not a "nice guy"? to me, a "nice guy" is someone who is genuine... meaning he knows who he is, who does really care about other people and life, is not at all self-absorbed, but is still confident and strong.. to me, he's a total catch! I would be happy to find a guy like that and even reconsider my stance on the FWB thing for him... or course with the hope that it would lead to something more! seriously beta... stop feeling so sorry for yourself that you are this "nice guy" that keeps getting sh*t on... in other words, grow up!! Yet guys who beat their wives/girlfriends are always in demand by women.
tkgirl Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yet guys who beat their wives/girlfriends are always in demand by women. where do you come up with this stuff?
jerbear Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yet guys who beat their wives/girlfriends are always in demand by women. Dude, there are women out there that will not take that! Always is a strong word and not used by everyone. My mom was that woman, my dad tried something and she divorced him.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 where do you come up with this stuff? So who has an easier time getting a woman, drew peterson, who kills all of his wives, or betas? I bet all of the betas posting here have probably never even had a girlfriend before. Yet, drug dealers, ex cons, murderers, have tons of female interest in them. A beta is less desirable than a murderer is. You ever notice that women who say they have been with abusive men have their LONGEST relationships with the abusers, and the shortest relationships with the non abusers?
tkgirl Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 So who has an easier time getting a woman, drew peterson, who kills all of his wives, or betas? I bet all of the betas posting here have probably never even had a girlfriend before. Yet, drug dealers, ex cons, murderers, have tons of female interest in them. A beta is less desirable than a murderer is. You ever notice that women who say they have been with abusive men have their LONGEST relationships with the abusers, and the shortest relationships with the non abusers? ok, I get it.. so compared to murderers, drug dealers, abusers, rapists etc. etc. you really are a "nice guy"... good for you! but yet you still can't get laid... what is wrong with us women these days?
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Thats becasue most betas come off as being less fertile then alphas where alpahs scream fertility and masculinity tha twill make babies
Hot Carl Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 You're making a lot of ridiculous generalizations. You're letting your emotions rule your mind. It's not healthy.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Thats becasue most betas come off as being less fertile then alphas where alpahs scream fertility and masculinity tha twill make babies Where's the logic if your alpha like scott peterson will kill you while you are pregnant? I know being with a beta is bad, but you'd rather be murdered than be with a beta? And if the point is to have kids, why have kids with some guy who is more likely to kill your kids? Scott Peterson is desired by more women than there are women that desire all beta males on earth.
aaron12 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I know being with a beta is bad, but you'd rather be murdered than be with a beta? relax mate, I know several women who are either dating or are married to betas.
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Where's the logic if your alpha like scott peterson will kill you while you are pregnant? I know being with a beta is bad, but you'd rather be murdered than be with a beta? And if the point is to have kids, why have kids with some guy who is more likely to kill your kids? Scott Peterson is desired by more women than there are women that desire all beta males on earth. Youre going way overboard Im talking the average alpha not murderers Women subconsciously and consciously are drawn to guys who seem the most fertile and its usually alphas The women in this thread can back me up on this
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 relax mate, I know several women who are either dating or are married to betas. let me guess, single mothers or have bad credit and need their bills paid?
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Youre going way overboard Im talking the average alpha not murderers Women subconsciously and consciously are drawn to guys who seem the most fertile and its usually alphas The women in this thread can back me up on this Yet it's the betas who have to support and raise the child. Because you pick thugs to father the children, then act all "shocked" when he wants to bang other women and not raise his kids.
aaron12 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 let me guess, single mothers or have bad credit and need their bills paid? all kinds of women. a few of them are the kind that you'd usually expect to go after alphas, but that is not the case.
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yet it's the betas who have to support and raise the child. Because you pick thugs to father the children, then act all "shocked" when he wants to bang other women and not raise his kids. I dont,there a difference between an average alpha and a thug you know You probably just dont get women becasue u dont come off as fertile and masculine nto because youre not a criminal
Hot Carl Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I know some remarkably wimpy guys who have girlfriends/wives. I even run across effeminate guys who are surprisingly married to women. And I've seen some damn ugly guys who have women devoted to them. Stupid ones, too. How do you all explain this?
IrishCarBomb Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Where's the logic if your alpha like scott peterson will kill you while you are pregnant? I know being with a beta is bad, but you'd rather be murdered than be with a beta? And if the point is to have kids, why have kids with some guy who is more likely to kill your kids? Scott Peterson is desired by more women than there are women that desire all beta males on earth. It's true... The fastest way to a woman's heart is straight through her ribcage.
torranceshipman Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 There are plenty of women out there who would love a great FWB-but decent FWBs are like gold dust...I tried this a coupla times and it was ace u til the guys got clingy, etc. You assume only men want a fwb and you couldn't be more wrong.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 I know some remarkably wimpy guys who have girlfriends/wives. I even run across effeminate guys who are surprisingly married to women. And I've seen some damn ugly guys who have women devoted to them. Stupid ones, too. How do you all explain this? The effiminate guys are probably gay. plenty of gay closeted men get married (see various politicians) and the women want them because they want someone they cannot have. Hence why married men are so desirable to so many women, because they aren't emotionally available. Gay men aren't either. So it's a HUGE challenge/drama for her. Ugly guys could be alphas or rich. Every "wimpy" guy I know who has a woman gets walked all over, she has zero respect for him, and cheats left and right, and he just takes it.
donnamaybe Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 There are plenty of women out there who would love a great FWB-but decent FWBs are like gold dust...I tried this a coupla times and it was ace u til the guys got clingy, etc. You assume only men want a fwb and you couldn't be more wrong. Been there, done that!
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 There are plenty of women out there who would love a great FWB-but decent FWBs are like gold dust...I tried this a coupla times and it was ace u til the guys got clingy, etc. You assume only men want a fwb and you couldn't be more wrong. Your average woman has much more sex than the average guy does, so sex is more of a biological function for women these days, hence why they are more likely to want just sex, and get "creeped" out by any talk of commitment. Women get as much sex as they want, men get as much as they can get.
Hot Carl Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 The effiminate guys are probably gay. plenty of gay closeted men get married (see various politicians) and the women want them because they want someone they cannot have. Hence why married men are so desirable to so many women, because they aren't emotionally available. Gay men aren't either. So it's a HUGE challenge/drama for her. Ugly guys could be alphas or rich. Every "wimpy" guy I know who has a woman gets walked all over, she has zero respect for him, and cheats left and right, and he just takes it. Well, that explains that. Given that people can't really change who they are, you must be feeling pretty screwed. What are you going to do about it? If you say you're going to "become a dastardly alpha", just let me tell you forget it. It's not possible.
Awesome Username Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I've made out with a guy that I liked and I knew he was going to move away. I certainly wouldn't have sex with him though, if I knew it wouldn't be a relationship. I don't like the whole FWB thing. Too many people seem to get hurt.
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