michg Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 If a married man does the following: Exchanges over 500 emails with another married woman,all about sex Keeps talking about what a great dad he is Keeps telling her what a beautiful child he has, praising her What a perfect wife she is, who sets the standards for every other woman he knows What a lucky man her husband is Goes out of his way to email her and see how she is, feeling insecure about her response Months later,w hen she doesn't reply warmly, emails again baiting her with topics that would get her to write back (like how fast her child was growing) Tells her to keep in touch, because she doesn't work there anymore Tells her he REALLY hoped she was doing well too, when all she said was she hoped he was Asks her to call him because he'd love to chat and was really looking forward to talking with her When she didn't and asked him to call and speak to her husband, he did (to save her) She finally goes to the office, he keeps talking about his kids again, how much he loves them and spoils them, showing off his fatherly skills He asks her to come into his office and close the door He touches her She says no and promises to come back He accepts and is disappointed, but tries his best to ensure she comes back They talk about their families He promises to bring her back to work soon And this has been happening for a year - he has waited for her for a year, even using EXACT words from emails he wrote a year ago (I've read them all and he doesn't know it, even the recent ones). It's like he can't forget about her, so how can it be just about sex? Does waiting this long and doing all of this mean that he has feelings for her too? Thanks in advance for your honest opinions.
2sunny Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 yes it looks like he has feelings for her. it looks like he's willing to risk his marriage for communication with her. looks like he's putting time and energy into her that should be directed at his wife... that is when it is obvious it is an emotional involvement more than is healthy for a marriage. it's not always about the sex... it's about his intentions. he seems to want her time and attention. that is an affair. what are you planning to do about it?
Lizzie60 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 WOW.. I don't think you need us to tell you that he has feelings for her.. you know it..
PandorasBox Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 WOW.. I don't think you need us to tell you that he has feelings for her.. you know it.. I agree. I think its pretty clear.
JackJack Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 When are you going to bring all of this up to your husband?
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