lovehurting Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 ok guys i have been on this boards for some months now. I have been married to my wife now for 5 years and also we have a 3 year old daughter. I got married to my wife , we both were in some problems before and we both were good friend and ended up getting married. I never had to real love for my wife, she loves me so much. my wife she never had any interest in sex as such because of what her ex did to her. well i had so many platonic relatioships outside of marriage. I feel so much guility i dont have any love for my wife , i am just in this marriage for my daughter and what the family will think of me. my wife does not work and i provide for the family. what should i do should i get a divorce or should i live my life miserable all my life
mikeymad Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 why did you get married to your wife in the first place? What about her attracted you?
Author lovehurting Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 just emotional attatchment
comj49 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Mainly because my wife is leaving me without much effort to try and fix our marriage, I would say you owe it to her to confront her about it. Let her know that you are seriously miserable and can't be in this marriage if things continue like they are. Don't just run away. Give it a serious effort to work things out, then if you decide to leave at least you can say you tried. Again, probably because I am on the side she is on right now, I would want you to hit me over the head with it before you just leave. You may just be suprised with the results, at least you will never know if you don't try.
Author lovehurting Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 yes iam going to tell her
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