Charmaine_Champagne Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 do you think being christmas time makes our exes think of us or be more sentimental/reflective/regretful? i just wonder if my ex is thinking of me because this will be the first christmas in 7 years that i haven't spent with him and also my birthday is on christmas day which made it special. so not only do i wonder if christmas hits anything home to him but also the fact that it is my birthday. we were first loves but he ended things with me very cruelly earlier this year and he turned abusive towards the end, i really hit rock bottom and did not deserve what he put me through. i am so much better now than i was during the summer and have been moving on with my life (there was a stage when i was on here every day and very down/obsessive) i'm back to the forum today because i think just the fact that it's xmas AND my birthday has stirred up some sad feelings/memories and i've been thinking of him these past few days. i'm NC now and i don't want him back but at the same time because of how badly he treated me i want him to feel bad/sorry about what he did to me. i just wonder do you think they think of us at xmas? especially in my situation being my birthday etc. i don't expect to hear from him and i don't want to because it stirs up trouble and hurt every time i do but at the same time i would hope some day in the future he realizes what he did was wrong and i'd like an apology to at least some acknowledgement of that from him. just wondering what ur thoughts are on the christmas/birthday thing..
Kantor Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 just wondering what ur thoughts are on the christmas/birthday thing.. I think the holidays we all remember the good times we've had in the past. So yes, im sure he'll think of you on Christmas / you birthday (Happy Early Birthday by the way!) Will you get what you want though is another story. Good luck, god bless, and be strong we'll all get through these tough times together.
Crusoe Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yes, he will be thinking of you. Just as much as you think of him.
bluestraps Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 It is entilely possible and then again not . I'ts the kind of question you could ask a magic 8 ball and you would get a correct awnser.
boogieboy Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Nope, not even close. If the dumpers are with someone new, they are only thinking of them, not you. They broke it off for a reason, unless it isnt going well with the new SO, they arent thinking of you.
mmk1 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yes, of course they do. They think of you like a christmas ornament that they are fond of. They may smile when they take that ornament out for the tree, think fondly of it while its on the tree, and then they'll put it away after christmas and not think of it again for another year. They get on with their lives and you need to as well.
1life8love1trust Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 It is entilely possible and then again not . I'ts the kind of question you could ask a magic 8 ball and you would get a correct awnser. I agree with this. Funny thing is its her birthday this past 20th, It was so hard for me cause I wanted to greet her and give the gift I had gotten her cause I planned it before she left me for another dude a couple of months ago. Anyways she has a new guy in her life, so I am nothing but a forgotten toy.... As for you dude, maybe he is, but if he found someone new, probably not.
Back2dabasics Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 i also think that your ex is gonna be thinkin of you this xmas. don't be surprised if he calls you for your birthday and xmas. i think overall. all our exes will be thinkin of us. i know for sure my ex will and that's because she recently wrote me an email of "guilt" but i ignore know because i know i deserve better and i know you deserve better as well. anyways have a great birthday
trueblue72ny Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 i guess we shouldnt be caring if our ex's are thinking of us. we should be thinking about our own lives and making that better .
curiousnycgirl Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 i guess we shouldnt be caring if our ex's are thinking of us. we should be thinking about our own lives and making that better . WORD! But I am sure to some degree my selfish ex will be thinking of all the wonderful christmas gifts I gave him over the years, and how he won't get any this year. DOODY HEAD!
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