Author jj33 Posted December 28, 2009 Author Posted December 28, 2009 Thanks. I dont feel like a victim and hope I dont sound like one. I am just frustrated that there seems to be no way to make it better. I am a person who likes to take action - fix whats wrong, make things better, move to the next step in a plan etc. And there is nothing to do here as he wont talk to me about anything and keeps messing around with things. But my new years resolution is to practice detachment and compassoin. As NJ said to be amused or at least detached and compassionate if he continues his nonsense. Hope you all had a good Christmas.
Brokenlady Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 JJ, I really hope this year brings you peace and happiness. I'm so sorry he continues to act like a dolt. Don't let him "win" by letting the bitterness get the better of you. I'm feeling pretty bitter myself, and suspect I'll be hanging out there for a while, so I'll make brownies and tea for you for when you find yourself in Bittertown. At least we're not alone.
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