SarahT111 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Heya all I have some crazy feelings going on at the moment and was wondering if anyone could help de-code my mind ... Theres this guy at work who has asked me out but i have really strange feelings over him. One day he willl be the most awesome guy and im so happy where things are going with us, but the next day I will despise him and wonder why I even considered going out with him .... The next morning i'll wake up and all I will want is him, and so on ..... Its driving me mad. I have such mixed feelings over him. I dont understand myself. I dont know if it would be fair to date him when im all over the place but ive been single for so long that I just reeeeallly want someone in my life again. Has anyone ever experienced this or have any advice for sorting out my crazy mind? Anything at all would be appreciated!!!!
boogieboy Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Cant tell ya until you figure out exactly what it is about him or what he did to cause you to despise him the next day. Need more info.
lecasanova Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yeahit's pretty obvious that you are really confused. however, i think a solution to this is to simply sit down and think about what he does to tick you off, either that, or perhaps you're going through a rough period in your life and you emotions are really Volatile? that seems like the most likely reason if you ask me. every feeling, more often than not, has a reason attached to them. and thus, ithe next time you're feeling angry, calm yourself down and ask yourself what exactly about him is pissing you off. and do the same when you're happy with him too. then, sit it down here and maybe we an give you more detailed help yes? (: In the mean time, do update me on your situation constantly! also, there's nothing wrong with being single for now! treasure singlehood -grins. and if you need any relationship advice, do check out my blog in my signature below (:
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 ive been single for so long that I just reeeeallly want someone in my life again. My opinion? I don't think you're actually REALLY into him. He's a warm, willing body and you're feeling lonely because it's Christmas-time, which can be very couple-centric. If you get together with him now, it won't be long before you're noticing other guys...especially once the holidays are over and you get past Valentine's Day.
D-Lish Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 .. ive been single for so long that I just reeeeallly want someone in my life again. I think your statement above says a lot. Sometimes that "want" can outweigh what is actually best for us. I dated someone once that was so wrong for me, simply because I really wanted to have someone in my life. I wasted a year dating him. I ignored red flags and was willing to settle for less than I deserved simply because I didn't want to be alone anymore. I have since discovered that being alone is far better than being in a mediocre relationship.
InspiredbyYou Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I think you might be feeling a tad lonely and you are gravitating towards a guy that you know deep down is completely wrong for you.
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