rainshine Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 We've been dating for six months now. I met him while he was living with a female room mate. He got rid of her, because she can't pay the rent and lost her job. At first, I was dubious about their relationship but I was introduced to her and met her....so that alleviated my doubts Now, I just found out that she owes him rent money and other debt due to her medical bills. My bf mentioned that he helped her out because she needed to get into surgery. My bf is broke and hasn't save enough money. Who would lend a "female room mate" cash even your broke for surgery related to removing ovaries. Help me on this....for some reason I'm not buying his explanations. He told me that it's not my business to ask more questions about it. I know it's in the past and she is now living with her boyfriend. Did they have a relationship? Was it platonic?
TheLoneSock Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Honestly, the first thing I thought of was 'abortion'. It may be a stretch, but I wouldn't count out the idea... He may have knocked her up when they were rooming together (and sleeping together), and he just helped pay for the abortion. This may just be their way of hiding it and introducing a cover story to replace the truth. Just a thought.
Author rainshine Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Honestly, the first thing I thought of was 'abortion'. It may be a stretch, but I wouldn't count out the idea... He may have knocked her up when they were rooming together (and sleeping together), and he just helped pay for the abortion. This may just be their way of hiding it and introducing a cover story to replace the truth. Just a thought. yup...that crossed my mind. I thought it could be an abortion and or ectopic pregnancy surgery. But, why would he mention this to me? If he got her pregnant, and should he be a man enough to pay for it? And not ask her to pay him back? That's a little bit tacky... Btw, I asked him if he knocked her up and he said that No he didn't and no he didn't have sex with her.
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