soconfusing Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 I went out last night with guy #1, expected it to just be a hanging out type of thing but it turned into a date. Anyway, we really clicked and I really like him. Before going out with guy #1, I was also communicating with guy #2 who I have a date with tonight. But we set this date up before guy #1 and I agreed to go out. So basically, I'm going on a date with guy #2 tonight and I'm feeling really guilty. I've only felt like this once before when I really liked someone after the first date but that relationship didn't work out anyway. What should I do? I'm going to go on this date tonight anyway because I wouldn't want someone to cancel on me without at least giving me a chance (or even to cancel on me last minute at all, lol) but how to stop the guilty feelings?
Yukikazi Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Noone can give you advice on how to get rid of your misplaced guilt.. only you can do that by accepting the fact that seeing multiple people is normal and you have nothing to feel guilty about. You don't go test drive 1 car and decide thats the one you want.. you go test drive a few then decide which you want wash, wax and detail.
stevejohnson1976 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 I wish the girls I was dating are like you!! hahaha.. I would go out and it may surprise you...give it a chance at least. You shouldn't feel guilty after just one date with someone else.
Author soconfusing Posted December 22, 2009 Author Posted December 22, 2009 Noone can give you advice on how to get rid of your misplaced guilt.. only you can do that by accepting the fact that seeing multiple people is normal and you have nothing to feel guilty about. You don't go test drive 1 car and decide thats the one you want.. you go test drive a few then decide which you want wash, wax and detail. Actually, that helps a lot. Thanks!
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