professorTR Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 My story: On July 5th of this past summer, I finally decided to go out and play golf with my friend after not doing so for quite some time. I kissed my wife goodbye and she went back to her nap. On the third hole I get a phone call, where she says "I've packed up my things and I'm out of the house...I'm just not happy anymore." Since that day I've been riding a rollercoaster. She's said she wants a divorce, but at other times she says she doesn't know what she wants and that I need to give her space to think. I've failed at this; I've had a really hard time not texting, calling, etc...we should've gone NC, but now I fear doing so will just give her reassurance that she's better without me instead of providing her with the time/space to miss me.....ugh.
nobmagnet Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 thats poo. what a bolt from the blummin blue. summot that really cheeses me off about special occasions. American july the 4th, thanks giving, Christmas ect why the heck do they wait till after such an occasion??? it makes a mockery of the occasion for family and kids. grrrrrrrr It means they planned it in advance and lied andlied and lied allthe way through a family occasion. sorry i went off on one then. I amjust worried aboubt all the newbies arriving in 3 days. im so sorry she is messing with your head after all this time. maybeyou need to consentrate onyou from now on and try to get on with life without her?? hugs x
Nikki Sahagin Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 The first time my ex dumped me he had just started a new job and I had a weeks worth of work. I asked not to see him for that entire week because I needed the nights sleep and had early starts. By that friday of my first week he had dumped me saying he needed his space and freedom. The second time he dumped me via email with pretty much the same reasons. Both times he maintains he loves me but just can't do it - whatever the hell that means.
nobmagnet Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 easing his godamn awful behaviour maybe love?? again........grrrrrrr pooor you.Hopefully you will see what a poo head he was soon. xxxxxxxxxxxx
Author McGrupp Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 on the plus side, i think im really moving on. i didnt want to start a new thread but NC has really shown me there is more to the world and not to narrow my scope so much onto just her and how the relationship ended and my regrets. its a good feeling. im at 25+ days NC (dont feel like counting exactly which i assume is a good sign) and am pumped to go away for a bit. im not sure exactly what my future holds. but im excited to push myself forward and hopefully in 5 years i look back and am like , "wow im glad that happened"
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