jeffery Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 went out last night with my ex girlfriend of two and half years we have been apart 5months and she has been in a relationship with a guy for 2 months,this guy is meant to be quite the idiot and does not treat her well,messes he around etc. before she offered me out on a drink she has tryed contacting me 4 times via email, then finaly she speaks to me on her mates instant messenger and tells me she cant stop thinking about me, miss everything about us and my family. so then i get the email the following day say if id like to meet up for a drink...so i went along bought new clothes,hair cut new scent the works. we had such a lovely time...laughing etc. then i text her today saying its not fair what do you want me or him, she said she cant not have me in her life and still has strong feelings for me even love. however has feelings for this guy shes in a relationship with... what do i do...i havent moved on as other girls dont really appeal to me.... so anything other than just move on...would be greatfull on what to do...do i wait for her to chose? is he a rebound? she text me last night saying "hey ;)" i didnt reply, i think she wants more than friends otherwise wouldnt lie to her man and wouldnt go to this much trouble...advice please
xerofate Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 You screwed up by texting her and asking what she wanted. SHould have just let it alone. She obviously is confused, and having NC with her was working. You got to go back to NC, let her make up her mind. sounds to me like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Similar situation for me. It sucks, but life goes on.
DustySaltus Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Disappear for about a month at least. NC whatsoever. The fact is that although she may be saying all kinds of nice things to you, she's confused and WITH SOMEONE ELSE AT NIGHT! Snap out of it and go have fun yourself. Talk to these other girls, take care of YOU.
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