jod1463 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Sometimes i get friends and family telling me stop acting like such a girl and just forget it her. Let her be and start acting like a man, i want to know since when having feelings and caring about someone not manly. I just don't get it caring for a woman, what she thinks, thinks she likes, being there even if she treats u like a jerk. Not to say I'm perfect but just so different of others around me. Life just sucks...
Devil Inside Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Hey brother...I understand. I am a man that cares about what others think and feel. It is not a bad thing...just different...so consider yourself unique. I can tell you for a fact that it is a gift...and there will be another woman out there that will appreciate a man like you. Hang in there.
Simon Attwood Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 start acting like a man, Leave acting to actors and don't act. Too many people act because they are afraid to just be themselves. A question for you; are they suggesting that in order to "act" manly you should hide feelings? Is it manly to hide something, to be afraid of revealing something, to be afraid of being vulnerable. Or is having the courage to be vulnerable a sign of greater inner strength? Aren't men supposed to be courageous? Well revealing your vulnerability is the most courageous thing you can do!
tVII Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 thats how guys are with problems. guys: give one answer and expect you to listen. girls: hugs and talk to each other. dont listen to them. they don't understand your grief.
nobmagnet Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 it shows true strenghth and maturity to love and have empathy. It is a quality that most of here on LS have an abundance of or we wouldnt want to help others in similar situations. I gnore them and be yourself its a gift. xx
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