Emotional24 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 So I am single and am enjoying it. I'm excited to do my own thing, go out and meet new people and just date. I know if i meet someone and its right...it'll become something but until then I'm keeping my focus on me and finishing up my last semester of school...having fun... Well...Friday night I was out with the girls and met a really cute guy. I found out he's single and we started talking. He seemed shy and his friend and himself both mentioned he is. but then after talking to him one on one, we were really hitting it off, same sense of humor, laughing and from what we talked about, same interests. Well towards the end of the night he was heading out and he asked me for my number so if he's ever in the area or I'm out in his area, we can meet up. i gave it to him then he called my phone right away so I had his number. he then hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. his friend he came out with was still out and he told me his friend is interested. well the next day, because i figured he was shy, i shot him a text later in the afternoon, saying it was nice meeting him and hopefully we can hang out sometime. he did text back saying "it was nice meeting me too hope i had a fun rest of the nite" I didn't reply to this. that was it. he hasn't called and its been a few days. then on facebook, i requested to have his friend(we knew the same people from high school) and another girl that was out with all of us that knew them and is also friends with my friend who I was out with on this night (hope that made sense) to be friends on there which they've accepted. So because i requested this guys friend and my friends friend who is friends with them, I ended up requesting the guy I hit it off with as well.. Was this bad? he has yet to accept my request but I just did it a couple hours ago. I don't want to seem stalkerish at all but then also felt it to be weird if i asked the other to be friends but not him?? plus if he's shy, i thought it'd be okay to do this. AND if I was in his shoes, i'd be flattered if the person i met had asked me to be a friend... I guess with being new at this, is this wrong to do on my end? he has no idea that I've been thinking of him...or may be looking into wanting a date with him...just that i threw out there that we should hang out sometime. so as far as i know, he'll see it as me just wanting to meet new people and friends?? I can see how it'd be weird for me to find him on facebook...but i didn't find him until i became friends with my friends friend and this guys friend...i didn't search for him alone...
temple Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Hey don't worry about it! You casually 'friended' him, you didn't ask him to marry you. I don't see this as a social faux pas at all. You just did it because you were interested in him and, to be honest, it's better to be honest about your feelings than getting into playing a whole load of mind games. He knows that you are interested in him, so now the ball is in his court. So sit back and relax, he'll respond to you soon enough.
Author Emotional24 Posted December 22, 2009 Author Posted December 22, 2009 Well he accepted my friend request. But you're right...ball is in his court. I've done all I'm going to do. He got my number or can contact me via facebook so if he's interested, he'll find a way to get to me. If not, well then no harm done...right?
Yukikazi Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Well he accepted my friend request. But you're right...ball is in his court. I've done all I'm going to do. He got my number or can contact me via facebook so if he's interested, he'll find a way to get to me. If not, well then no harm done...right? Correct.. you seem to be doing everything right so far.. continue.
stillafool Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Well he accepted my friend request. But you're right...ball is in his court. I've done all I'm going to do. He got my number or can contact me via facebook so if he's interested, he'll find a way to get to me. If not, well then no harm done...right? You have done all you should do. You are right if he is interested he will find a way to contact you. Move on and keep having fun.
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