dudesweet Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Alright, I'm gonna try to keep this short. My girl of 2 years broke up with me about 2 months ago saying she wasn't sure how she felt and it was best to break it off. I took it hard, cried in front of her like a bitch and went emo for about a week. We then started talking again and hanging out but not as often but tried to be 'friends'. We pretty much did the same ole stuff together minus the sex, although we did fool around once. So another week goes by and things seemed ok as just friends until I mentioned something about a old friend and how she was gorgeous. She brushed it off at first and then later went psycho and asked me what her name was so she could find her on my facebook. I told her it didn't matter and stopped talking to her for the night. I then got texts saying shes done with me, accusing me of hiding someone and all of this bs that she blew out of proportion. She ignores me for a week and then texts me again saying shes dead inside, I've ****ed her emotionally and that shes found someone else to be happy with. I don't know if that was said out of spite, or if she really found a quick rebound, or if she found someone all along and was just waiting for me to slip up. Since then I've called her maybe 3 to 4 times in the last month just randomly and she won't answer. I feel like I've moved on and I'm ready to see other girls but I still don't feel right about it all. She always said whatever happens let's end this relationship on a good note, and that's what I want to do but now shes not having it. I'm trying to ride this out but at the same time I feel like I need to just go over there and talk with her face to face about it and end it the right way, not over some stupid texts. Is this a good or bad idea? I honestly feel like I did nothing wrong other than calling some friend gorgeous. Any input is appreciated.
Zeegagge Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Nah, don't talk to her, nothing good will come of it. She sounds a bit jealous and crazy. Defense mechanism maybe? And you think she might make something up about another guy just to get back at you? Whether she did or not is not important, the fact that you could even think she would do that tells me she's a little unstable. She's the one being emo now. This whole thing reeks of instability. Move on.
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