Woggle Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 That is how it happened. Both of us had gotten to an event earlier than most people and we were talking the same way I would talk to somebody on a plane and it set something off in her.
freestyle Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 How odd...I always considered married men , less attractive and more brotherly since they have married what I call a Sistah!. Maybe I regard the lady of the house and also see no reason to disturb marital vows. Part of going thru the 40's is getting to understand my fellow guys, Ohh they look alright at the younger chickies, but most have such comical phrases once the chickies leave the room, and it is by no means respectful. So whilst you may get the guys attention, his words after you leave would made you think twice how you really come off to the guys. And not one of them would leave the home fires for a flash in the pan..... excellent point, Tayla..........I'm around the same age as you and I've made the same observation................... and no, I can't repeat anything they've said.....
Blindsidedagainalive Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Was she intelligent and attractive .... hmm... by your standards. I'd love to hear you line of plane bull****.... I was a gold member of Continental....never had that happen. When I leave the SCUMBAG, I could use this woman impressin' talk you do...you silver tonged devil. You could be like a Cyrano de Bergerac for us guys who aren't as linguistically gifted as you.
Woggle Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Yes she was intelligent and attractive plus she was married.
bentnotbroken Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Luckily I have a very, very Thick skin..I definately dont take offense easily..I think married men are attractive so what.... I never said i dated one all im saying is society allways puts the stigma against single women like its our fault your husband is a DOG...You probably knew that when you married him.. Being single is wonderful as well and contrary to your beliefs ALOT of smart single women CHOSE to be and stay single...Just like you chose to be in a crappy marriage.,, Statistics and studies show single women are healthier and happier stress-free...By the looks of this forum their are not alot of happy stress free married women in the world, And im not cocky just Confident Could you please supply the studies you speak of and where I can find them. They aren't in line with what I have studied and I am interested in the deviant nature of the studies you suggest. If you can help...thank you.
Blindsidedagainalive Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Woman don't ask men to their rooms if you weren't giving them a signal. You were talking to her like you would on a plane, and it set something off in her. STOP THE NONSENSE! You were flirting with her. If you were chatting about business, an invite like that doesn't come out of the blue. YOU WERE FLIRTING..... UMMM....my supplier is XYZ company ,do you use them? and do you want to come to my room?
FreezorBurn Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Don't feed the Troll. (Yes Nubian is a troll in every sence)
FreezorBurn Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yes, I know the kind of Seaside Heights woman you are referring to. It's quite a heap of classy woman down there at the Seaside Bars. If you travel above the NJ mason-dixon line, where the woman have teeth, you won't even get the time. LOL, This is the funnest thing I have ever read on this site! I love Seaside Bars... Your right!!! quite a heap of classy woman down there ... Never find Ms. Right but you sure as hell will find Ms. Right now!
scatterd Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Someday when you marry and are changing diapers ,cleaning,doing yard work and such see if you can continuue to do the same as you did in the beginning.You might think twice.I see plenty of good looking single men out there you are paying attention to the wrong ones.
Devil Inside Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Hello everyone, the title of this thread is pretty obvious...I honestly believe that young, single, attractive womwn like myself have it so hard...but yet so easy We pretty much have alot of options to date who we want. but me myself and women just like me i allways notice married men are the hottest i know im not the only one who thinks the same way, I get flirted with by married men all the time i get the lustful eyes, the intense stare i actuall think most women find that a huge turn on because its a forbidden fruit per say. Now i know there are alot of bitter, wives that are getting cheated in this forum but dont be mad at the young, hot, single woman because 9 times out of 10 its your HUSBAND initiating the flirting.....I know two wrongs dont make a right but he is the one disrespecting you and your vows. My advice to you is step your game up dont get comfortable. Yeah sure you guys have years together and a couple kids but dont forget how you got him in the first place...Because trust me what you wont do a Single women will... You stated the reason you find us attractive in your post. You want what you can't have. You like the challenge. I would also assume that a lot of us married guys are sexy because our W's picked our dumb asses, polished us up and made us more civilized, well rounded, and attractive.
Woggle Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 The point is that some women always want what another woman has. These are the same women who flip out if they show up at an event and a woman is wearing the same dress as them. Plus they also want what they can't have.
2sure Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Married men often seem sexier to single unattached women because simply by being married - a husband, a provider, a father, etc...they display what the single woman wants but does not have. Stability, children, etc.
wheream_i Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Nubian, you remind me of Starring Emma, our resident "15 year old" sex addict. How does one get in contact with her? Kidding.
Author Nubian Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 @ 2Sure I have to agree with her...... Single women are attracted to what we dont have....Being a faithful man, and being a provider ,and a good father IS attractive all im saying is as a beautiful single lady if you as a MARRIED man are happy with your wife stop flirting with us!!! Soooo many women believe that it is the OW hunting down the married man when in actuality it is the other way around....Call me what you want i dont care But single women out-number men period...So if you want to keep your so called "Happy Home" in tact ladies do what you need to do to keep him because there are alot of women waiting in the wings to snacth him.
threebyfate Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 There are married or single men who are attractive. The married ones who chase skirts, exceeding their vows are the ones that the wives need to heave ho. I did it and don't regret it. Without finding out about his infidelity, I wouldn't have the opportunity to meet and marry my second husband, who's a major improvement from the first. So all you single ladies who find married men attractive, go for it! You act like a natural filter for the rest of us to know who to kick to the curb and who not to.
skylarblue Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I don’t think that a MM is more attractive than a single man, but a wedding ring usually makes a guy more attractive to me. I’ve been attracted to guys that I wouldn’t have had a remote interest in had it not been for the fact that they were married. Even the MM I see now has no clue that the only thing that’s still keeping me tethered to the R is his M. I second your advice to the W to step your game up.
Woman In Blue Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Now i know there are alot of bitter, wives that are getting cheated in this forum but dont be mad at the young, hot, single woman because 9 times out of 10 its your HUSBAND initiating the flirting.....I know two wrongs dont make a right but he is the one disrespecting you and your vows. Oh for god's sake - what are you, 17 years old? You sound like a dumbass teenager. Here's a newsflash for ya - I'm not married, nor am I a "bitter betrayed wife." However, I get hit on by married men all the time - the difference is, I'm not ignorant enough to be FLATTERED by it like you are. Married men looking for a cheap thrill are a DIME A DOZEN. They'll pretty much screw anything if it's available to them away from wifey's prying eyes - "hot" or not. So don't give yourself too much credit, honey. Of course, when you grow up, you'll understand what I mean.
Woggle Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I understand the fact that they are commited family men is attractive but doesn't the fact that they are willing to cheat take away from all of that?
threebyfate Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 DAMN that was a good post! Thanks. I'm serious about this to the point where I'm thinking about putting a thread into the OW/OM forum, to thank them for my life, as it stands now. Without that predatory MOW, I would never have known what kind of man the ex-H was, and worse yet, I would never have met my H.
threebyfate Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Until that post, I hadn't even thought of it from that angle. I mean, certainly his propensity to cheat was lurking right beneath the surface. He'd probably "hit on" a couple women prior to the MOW he eventually hooked up with, wouldn't you think? I guess you would be the one to know in YOUR case, but one would assume that a cheater would make a few attempts before he/she found someone willing to participate in an A. If it weren't for someone willing, how many years might one waste with that potential cheater? PS: I can't HELP but note the disparity between your festive, cute avie and my twisted, artificial one. lolShe wasn't his first, albeit first long-term. He'd had a couple of ONSs with office girls who had no idea he was married. In retrospect, this wasn't possible, since he wore his wedding ring and if taken off, he had a tan line.
bentnotbroken Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Thanks. I'm serious about this to the point where I'm thinking about putting a thread into the OW/OM forum, to thank them for my life, as it stands now. I agree 1000%
silktricks Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 You are full of ****. Something is missing here. A quick chat amongst business people does not lead to upstairs invites. She must have been: 1.) JOKING 2.) YOU ARE lying about the room motive 3.) she was a prostitute 4.) I would say she was incredibly unattractive and desperate, but I don't even think that would happen 5.) VERY DRUNK I worked across the street at the Siemens US headquarters for many years. I know the Hyatt. Been around my friend....all over the world. Sell your bull**** somewhere else. A little piece of your story is missing. Just one little piece. BSAA, You are wrong, you know.... Although obviously not many casual business chats lead to bedroom invitations, that doesn't mean they never happen. They do. Both my husband and I have experienced the exact same thing at business conferences. And I've worked with other people who have had it happen to as well. The people involved were not only NOT 1.) JOKING 2.) lying about the room motive 3.) a prostitute 4.) incredibly unattractive and desperate 5.) VERY DRUNK They were professional people who at least should have been taking care of business. You should be glad that it hasn't happened to you, but you shouldn't assume that because it hasn't happened to you, that it hasn't happened to others.
Lovelybird Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 Hello everyone, the title of this thread is pretty obvious...I honestly believe that young, single, attractive womwn like myself have it so hard...but yet so easy We pretty much have alot of options to date who we want. but me myself and women just like me i allways notice married men are the hottest i know im not the only one who thinks the same way, I get flirted with by married men all the time i get the lustful eyes, the intense stare i actuall think most women find that a huge turn on because its a forbidden fruit per say. Now i know there are alot of bitter, wives that are getting cheated in this forum but dont be mad at the young, hot, single woman because 9 times out of 10 its your HUSBAND initiating the flirting.....I know two wrongs dont make a right but he is the one disrespecting you and your vows. My advice to you is step your game up dont get comfortable. Yeah sure you guys have years together and a couple kids but dont forget how you got him in the first place...Because trust me what you wont do a Single women will... maybe you have habit to covet what is others. to some women, only men who are other women's are attractive. This is something in your soul made you this way. work on your soul, so this won't ruin yours and other women's lives.
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