Nubian Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 Hello everyone, the title of this thread is pretty obvious...I honestly believe that young, single, attractive womwn like myself have it so hard...but yet so easy We pretty much have alot of options to date who we want. but me myself and women just like me i allways notice married men are the hottest i know im not the only one who thinks the same way, I get flirted with by married men all the time i get the lustful eyes, the intense stare i actuall think most women find that a huge turn on because its a forbidden fruit per say. Now i know there are alot of bitter, wives that are getting cheated in this forum but dont be mad at the young, hot, single woman because 9 times out of 10 its your HUSBAND initiating the flirting.....I know two wrongs dont make a right but he is the one disrespecting you and your vows. My advice to you is step your game up dont get comfortable. Yeah sure you guys have years together and a couple kids but dont forget how you got him in the first place...Because trust me what you wont do a Single women will...
NowhereToHide Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Hello everyone, the title of this thread is pretty obvious...I honestly believe that young, single, attractive womwn like myself have it so hard...but yet so easy We pretty much have alot of options to date who we want. but me myself and women just like me i allways notice married men are the hottest i know im not the only one who thinks the same way, I get flirted with by married men all the time i get the lustful eyes, the intense stare i actuall think most women find that a huge turn on because its a forbidden fruit per say. Now i know there are alot of bitter, wives that are getting cheated in this forum but dont be mad at the young, hot, single woman because 9 times out of 10 its your HUSBAND initiating the flirting.....I know two wrongs dont make a right but he is the one disrespecting you and your vows. My advice to you is step your game up dont get comfortable. Yeah sure you guys have years together and a couple kids but dont forget how you got him in the first place...Because trust me what you wont do a Single women will... There is a thing called Karma, sweetheart. We all get back what we give (myself included). Chances are, you will one day be married yourself with kids. Think about it.
whichwayisup Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 What you put out there, you get back.. Also know, that these MM may find you sexy and hot, but that's it. To be blunt - Good for one thing.. Sorry, I had to say it because your opening post is very cocky and it seems you are priding yourself on bedding or getting certain attention from married men. If it makes YOU feel good and you're getting an ego feed by taking another woman's husband, know the MM don't see you as long term or wife material. Sorry again to be blunt, if I didn't say it, I'm sure someone else would have and it wouldn't put as nicely.
carhill Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Chances are, you will one day be married yourself with kids. Think about it. It'll be some other married man at that point. And then, without fanfare, the 20's will end. Hope some of the twenty-somethings can compartmentalize regret, for they'll have a nice basket of it by the time they're 50. Married men (and married women, for that matter) are attractive because they are committed and have social proof. Society blesses families and marriage. It has power. Power is attractive. Enjoy
bittersweet memories Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 (edited) Hello everyone, the title of this thread is pretty obvious...I honestly believe that young, single, attractive womwn like myself have it so hard...but yet so easy We pretty much have alot of options to date who we want. but me myself and women just like me i allways notice married men are the hottest i know im not the only one who thinks the same way, I get flirted with by married men all the time i get the lustful eyes, the intense stare i actuall think most women find that a huge turn on because its a forbidden fruit per say. Now i know there are alot of bitter, wives that are getting cheated in this forum but dont be mad at the young, hot, single woman because 9 times out of 10 its your HUSBAND initiating the flirting.....I know two wrongs dont make a right but he is the one disrespecting you and your vows. My advice to you is step your game up dont get comfortable. Yeah sure you guys have years together and a couple kids but dont forget how you got him in the first place...Because trust me what you wont do a Single women will... I don't even know you and I can tell what kind of woman you are.. Thats probably why married man hit on you all the time..the day will come when you will be very unhappy and lonely woman because no man will EVER take you serious or want to marry you. Enoy it while you can. Edited December 22, 2009 by bittersweet memories
Author Nubian Posted December 22, 2009 Author Posted December 22, 2009 Luckily I have a very, very Thick skin..I definately dont take offense easily..I think married men are attractive so what.... I never said i dated one all im saying is society allways puts the stigma against single women like its our fault your husband is a DOG...You probably knew that when you married him.. Being single is wonderful as well and contrary to your beliefs ALOT of smart single women CHOSE to be and stay single...Just like you chose to be in a crappy marriage.,, Statistics and studies show single women are healthier and happier stress-free...By the looks of this forum their are not alot of happy stress free married women in the world, And im not cocky just Confident
threebyfate Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Nubian, you remind me of Starring Emma, our resident "15 year old" sex addict.
hotmarriedchick Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Thank you for "forcing" me to get off my a$$ and register:) I just *need* to respond to this... First off...Are you serious??? That's an honest question. I met my fabulous husband back in college. He was a senior, I was a junior. I was done with the "scene" and so was he. I was just shy of 21 years old. Fast forward ---15 years of marriage and 18+ years together. Yep, I'm 38 now. I look better and hotter than I did then for the record. Throw in 2 *amazing* kids (12 and 10). Has it been easy??? Hell no. Having a mature, honest and progressive relationship isn't. It takes A LOT of self awareness and committment to keeping our marriage moving in a trajectory that serves both of our evolvement. We WORK at it! That includes "dates", shooting pool in our basement (in the home we created together btw), and getting together with good friends and families who are in the same dynamic we are. OH and hot sex. Do I have other "hot married men" look at me and give me "the eyes"? (for the record?) Oh yeah---SO WHAT??? Are there attractive people out there?? Yep, but again, so what??? My husband and I both acknowledge that we're not dead...We have eyes... There are boundaries. My husband loves me and respects me enough to not go there and like-wise for me. I have an incredible family and a beautiful history with this man. You think you're "hot chick eyes" can touch that??? I speak for all my fellow hot woman wives when I say --good luck! No disrespect...but like the Monday night football guys say.. "C'mon Man!" (ESPN) xoxo HMC
jwi71 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 I never said i dated one all im saying is society allways puts the stigma against single women like its our fault your husband is a DOG...You probably knew that when you married him.. See...here you sound like a bitter OW. No need to solely attack the WS. The OM/OW has to own her half as well. And then you post this: I really pity a women who settles for crumbs when she can have the steak, lobster, salad, and baked potato to....Im a happily single Diva and i've had married men approach me before but ill never go for it... Where you seem to denigrate the OW/OM. So what's the story here Nubian? Just trolling away December? I didn't bother to quote the post where you were asking for what "wife material" is...
rina_r Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 My advice to you is step your game up dont get comfortable. Yeah sure you guys have years together and a couple kids but dont forget how you got him in the first place...Because trust me what you wont do a Single women will... One cannot build happiness on someone elses grieve.
angie2443 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 If you are trolling, can you at least make it more interesting?
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 I can honestly say that I don't find anything a turn on or attractive about married guys who cheat. I do agree that a good deal of the time, it is the married guy making the moves on a potential OW and not the other way around.
Woggle Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 I can honestly say that I don't find anything a turn on or attractive about married guys who cheat. I do agree that a good deal of the time, it is the married guy making the moves on a potential OW and not the other way around. This is not really true. Ever since I got married it seems that women take a simple good morning as a sign that I want to sleep with her. I could be talking about the weather like I would with any man and next thing I know she is inviting me to he hotel room. A wedding ring is certainly a draw to some women even though they can't get me no matter how hard I try.
Blindsidedagainalive Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Did you have a healthy relationship with your father? Woman who are attracted to unavailable men often have 'daddy' issues, or fear of intimacy. Was your Dad there for you? Was he emotionally distant? Well adjusted woman are ordinarily repulsed by flirting married men.
Blindsidedagainalive Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 next thing I know she is inviting me to he hotel room. Yes, I know the kind of Seaside Heights woman you are referring to. It's quite a heap of classy woman down there at the Seaside Bars. If you travel above the NJ mason-dixon line, where the woman have teeth, you won't even get the time.
JaneInVegas Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Now i know there are alot of bitter, wives that are getting cheated in this forum but dont be mad at the young, hot, single woman because 9 times out of 10 its your HUSBAND initiating the flirting.....I know two wrongs dont make a right but he is the one disrespecting you and your vows. My advice to you is step your game up dont get comfortable. Yeah sure you guys have years together and a couple kids but dont forget how you got him in the first place...Because trust me what you wont do a Single women will... I know that you think you're going to stay young and beautiful forever, but trust me honey ... you're not. One of these days you're going to be middle aged with a big tummy from giving birth to your husbands 3 kids, and you're going to be MAD AS HELL when karma bites you in the ass and YOUR husband starts flirting with all the young beautiful women like you used to be. Then we'll see how mad you are at the young beautiful self-centered bimbos.
Lizzie60 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Silly Silly Girl I really pity a women who settles for crumbs when she can have the steak, lobster, salad, and baked potato to....Im a happily single Diva and i've had married men approach me before but ill never go for it... My definition of a mistress is a woman who should STAY a mystery no one should know you, care to know you, or want to know you ,stay in your place which is to get lied to, allways get leftovers, have worthless unmeaningful sex, and spend your holidays alone, and dont ask him questions only his wife has the right to do that. ------------------------------ Humm.... this post caught my attention... Methink someone is having fun here...
Woggle Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 next thing I know she is inviting me to he hotel room. Yes, I know the kind of Seaside Heights woman you are referring to. It's quite a heap of classy woman down there at the Seaside Bars. If you travel above the NJ mason-dixon line, where the woman have teeth, you won't even get the time. Actually it was at a business event in New Brunswick and she was a woman who lived in Flemington which is in the rich part of NJ.
Brightmoon Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Statistics and studies show single women are healthier and happier stress-free... You sound quite bitter about something though....not exactly stress free. eh?
Author Nubian Posted December 22, 2009 Author Posted December 22, 2009 Thanx for posting BB07...Gotta love you Smooches:D
Tayla Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 How odd...I always considered married men , less attractive and more brotherly since they have married what I call a Sistah!. Maybe I regard the lady of the house and also see no reason to disturb marital vows. Part of going thru the 40's is getting to understand my fellow guys, Ohh they look alright at the younger chickies, but most have such comical phrases once the chickies leave the room, and it is by no means respectful. So whilst you may get the guys attention, his words after you leave would made you think twice how you really come off to the guys. And not one of them would leave the home fires for a flash in the pan.....
Blindsidedagainalive Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Flemington which is in the rich part of NJ- You must have never made it out of Seaside. Flemington is redneck! You stated this like a fact, like woman always come on to you. So, do you go to New Brunswick regularly with multiple woman doing this. GET OVER YOURSELF. Do you even have a full set of teeth? Seriously, don't bull**** me......you are missing a couple arent you.
Woggle Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Flemington which is in the rich part of NJ- You must have never made it out of Seaside. Flemington is redneck! You stated this like a fact, like woman always come on to you. So, do you go to New Brunswick regularly with multiple woman doing this. GET OVER YOURSELF. Do you even have a full set of teeth? Seriously, don't bull**** me......you are missing a couple arent you. Flemington pretty much is mostly Mcmansions and farm area. It might have changed recently because the last time I was there was 2006. I was in New Brunswick because my company was having an event at the Hyatt. We even got free rooms. I was simply making friendly chat with a woman from another company and she invited me up to her hotel room. Since we are both married I said no.
jwi71 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Flemington which is in the rich part of NJ- You must have never made it out of Seaside. Flemington is redneck! You stated this like a fact, like woman always come on to you. So, do you go to New Brunswick regularly with multiple woman doing this. GET OVER YOURSELF. Do you even have a full set of teeth? Seriously, don't bull**** me......you are missing a couple arent you. Speaking from a strictly male perspective...a few missing teeth is not necessarily a bad thing. She would need a few "extra" traits to make her picture perfect...throw in about 4" tall, a flat head (to rest ones drink) and floppy ears with which to grab...voila...one fine evening.
Blindsidedagainalive Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 You are full of ****. Something is missing here. A quick chat amongst business people does not lead to upstairs invites. She must have been: 1.) JOKING 2.) YOU ARE lying about the room motive 3.) she was a prostitute 4.) I would say she was incredibly unattractive and desperate, but I don't even think that would happen 5.) VERY DRUNK I worked across the street at the Siemens US headquarters for many years. I know the Hyatt. Been around my friend....all over the world. Sell your bull**** somewhere else. A little piece of your story is missing. Just one little piece.
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