lady_vampiress Posted December 21, 2003 Posted December 21, 2003 HOW TO FIND YOUR SOUL MATE Soul work requires a widening of the heart and mind and opening to fate. Soul is made by asking for concentrated cultivation from self. Soul mates are stimulating and demanding; they tend to bring out the best in each other. Sometimes soul mates ask self why they are unhappy. RELATIONSHIPS Relationship can be a spiritual path of enlightenment. The basis of any relationship must be built on truthful communication where neither person feels superior or the top dog all the time. In a solid soul mate relationship the leadership should be passed back and forth between the couple. On some days one partner is in control and has all the bright ideas and their partner goes along with the flow. The next time the creative thought processing may come from the other person. Neither is constantly the leader or the follower. When one knows what they want in a mate and where to go to locate that person, they are bound to find it. Soul mates “know instinctively” and search out their equals. When one finds their soul mate from another lifetime the relationship will last forever. Admitting to self, “I want my other half, my true partner, my soul mate in this world” sends the signal to their soul mate where ever they may reside, who hears their inner gut-wrenching cry, and answers the call home. Soul mates bond and feel as if they are one; two minds working in tandem as a single unit. Nurturing and loving, this bond can be with friends, lovers or family members. Soul mates are created at a soul level. A person needs to get in touch with their own essence, to feel the soul and get a sense of what gives them true happiness. One must discover how to clear out the old patterns and allow the new ones in. By asking Universe, the angels and one’s higher self for guidance in bringing to them who and what they desire and need, it can happen. Of course blocking and the walls one puts up must be removed or they will keep the person from attracting anyone new into their life. By setting up inner changes the path for a soul mate to enter is clear, waiting on the perfect timing to occur. To get a soul mate’s attention one’s natural vibration has to be revved up, working as a beacon in the night. A person with high energy can feel their soul mate’s presence even if they are in a room with 400 people. Most marriages are mismatched. Relationship is not a project to be taken on, it is grace. Humans are not used to dealing with grace artfully. One must appreciate and give thanks, honor, celebrate life, tending to another and be observant. The soul of any relationship wants respect, autonomy and mystery. A relationship is not in existence to make us feel good, but instead to lead us into the many pathways and openings that are our destiny and potential. What is of utmost importance is not what you get out of a relationship, but what you give to it. A true mate is the other half of self. What is given to a mate is re-given. It is not only about the people who interact with each other, but the vehicle that shapes life. Relationships that touch the soul lead us into a dialogue with eternity and the Divinity itself. Relationships have some difficulties in the beginning where emotions may be strong but confusing. Many share the experience of drama and ecstasy, of discovering and possibly losing their soul mates, not just in this lifetime but in other lifetimes as well. LOVE Love is: Creating calm in the midst of chaos Taking time with one another to reflect and recharge Knowing the power of simple beauty and sharing it Nourishing body and soul together Helping each other streamline the ways life is managed Inspiring ideas that embrace a more satisfying way of living Focusing on those things that matter the most Discovery of self Rewards of a simpler life Taking charge of life Creative rituals to keep the relationship close Love should flow with spontaneity; it should not be structured. True love in everyday living is enduring and mutually satisfying to both partners. It is giving to another, and whatever is given out should be returned. The purpose of life is “Growth”. Soul mates are growth relationships. There are many different kinds of relationships that come from the soul’s desire to experience growth. Soul mates produce a powerful energy which becomes a force of its own. A new, fresh, boundless energy with it’s own identity forms out the union. The vibrations of love act as a teacher, thus the soul mates grow, together. Change is experienced gradually. My question is do u think uve found ur soulmate and if u have do u think uve lost ur soulmate due to circumstances that couldnt be controlled.
MysticalZ Posted December 21, 2003 Posted December 21, 2003 In a past life he was a warrior, a ruler, a hero to the ppl. I was the queen, the one governed by others, who's rules I had to obey and govern. I was placed on a pedestal I'm told and could not be as one with the ppl. He and I fell in love but our love could not be. I could not be with him. We were torn apart by the government. Although the relationship was shortlived the love was tremendous. He was very angry that we could not be together. In this life I was born first, he the year after - both in different countries. At 14 we were dreaming of the other, both had relationships which just did not satisfy or complete us. In a way we have been searching for each other for most our lives. I broke off an engagement by telling my fiance to allow me to be free for The One. Over the years I have searched many faces and could not recognise him in any of their eyes. We met this year. I was drawn to his eyes and the light around him. When we first met, altho he's terribly handsome and could have any woman he said 'I thought u were above me'. In his years no-one has understood him - til meeting me. He has been alone all his life with his thoughts - til meeting me. He had set plans for his life - til meeting me. Current situation is - I'm waiting for him to recognise me. If he knew who we were in a past life and how much the love meant to him then, why does he wait so long to 'recognise' me? Look into my eyes and see my spirit. I think he does. He has said it is possible that I could be his soulmate. I know his spirit knows our history. I know that he (the person) isn't certain. Soulmates, we're all soulmates cast here to live as one, as we have chosen. It's only when it's recognised, that it is celebrated. Soulmates, although u can meet, does not mean that the journey will be blissful. And yet it is. MysticalZ
dyermaker Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 How come no one was a peon in a past life? How come in all ethereal medieval glory not ONE person caught the black plague from an Arab merchant or syphillus from some hooker. Everyone was a warrior, king, gladiator, queen, emperess--You'd think eventually someone would have to come forward and say, "OH MY GOD! You were a pisspoor medieval peasant?? I was an untouchable lost in the indian caste system!! We're soulmates!" Who told you of your past life? Would you have paid her as much if she revealed that you died of dysentery at age fourteen? Acheiving a healthy relationship in this life is hard enough, why do people have to go back in time?
moimeme Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 Why are you asking questions of a poster who posted two months ago? Anyway, the concept of 'soulmates' can be tied in with past regression but doesn't have to be.
dyermaker Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 Sorry. I Just saw it and it pissed me off. It seems like a copout to me, a way of avoiding--nevermind, I'll just let it go. Truth is my girl told me she's always wanted to read the weekly world news (ALIEN JACKO LOVECHILD FOUND etc.) but has been too proud to buy one. I bought it for her, and I'm going to mail it to her tommorow, but I'm up now doing the crossword.
lady_vampiress2003 Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 Idont particualry believe everything written there I just copyed it from a soulmate website in order to ask the question
Arabess Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 Originally posted by dyermaker Everyone was a warrior, king, gladiator, queen, emperess--You'd think eventually someone would have to come forward and say, "OH MY GOD! You were a pisspoor medieval peasant?? That was HYSTERICAL Dyer!!!!! I think I'll make it a thread......LMAO!
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