McGrupp Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 i dont plan on ever seeing my ex again. if you think like that its kinda easier to let go, not think of what they are doing. like obviously we all have hope, but when you imagine a scenario where they come back...i mean come on, it just doesnt happen like the movies. so i plan on never seeing or talking or contacting or responding to contact again.
HeavenOrHell Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 Good plan. I don't know how to make myself do it though.
worldcavedin Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 Good plan. I don't know how to make myself do it though. that is the hard part, maybe you should try smaller aims like i wont contact him for two days and when you succeed say to yourself well i have went two days might as well do another two then go for 3 days. Even if you fail and contact him dont beat youself up about it jst say **** but i will succeed this time and eventually you will be going for weeks on end with nc
Author McGrupp Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 tody is the 1st day of winter. go for the `1st day of spring. set goals. btw my ex just reinstated he fbook and i cant find out how to block her from seeing me.
jod1463 Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 I wish i could say or do this. But i have to go to court to sort out the OP she got against me.
Author McGrupp Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 howd it get to that point? although i can imagine, i was there and then just stopped. guess you guys had a confrontation in person...
Author McGrupp Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 i tried to block her...and she wouldnt come up in the box so i was like wtf? turns out she blocked me but has ****ty privacy settings so i can still see her. ugh. so know in moments of weakness i can see her but she cant see me? thats not fair
jod1463 Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 Nothing in person just always manage to get in contact with her regardless. fb sucks when u going with things like this. I hate that i have a page up but can't just walk away from it.
Author McGrupp Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 wow. whats the point? did you threaten her? i dont get it...
jod1463 Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 no threats. just unwanted contact on her part. I was lied to while she was in vacation and wanted to know the truth, got into her fb,email,myspace. unfortunately i found what i was looking for and i was crushed.
AvianChaos Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 i dont plan on ever seeing my ex again. if you think like that its kinda easier to let go, not think of what they are doing. like obviously we all have hope, but when you imagine a scenario where they come back...i mean come on, it just doesnt happen like the movies. so i plan on never seeing or talking or contacting or responding to contact again. My ex dumped me 7 months ago. The only reason i ever saw her or made contact with her after that was because i was completely blindsided by her decision. It's been a solid 5 months of absolutely no contact. I did run into her about 4 months ago, but it was a coincidence and all we said was hi. No contact heals you. Once you realize the situation is permanent, i think there is no better way to deal with it than NC. It can be hard but i hope you stick with it.
almostpassedit Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 she was acting funny, i never knew the reason. turns out she was cheating for about 8 months. best friend told me, i attempted to break up with her but she kept calling me and wouldn't stop. i gave in and now we are back in communication and i realize she is pushing me around and making me be her friend while she goes and fawks another. i eventually fired her from work, and went back a week later. she ended up telling me to fawk off. nc 2 years. still get dreams too, every few months. still think about her in the morning. less and less as time goes on but its still there.
HeavenOrHell Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 I think you're right, cos when I think about cutting him off totally I panic. I would have to do it bit by bit. that is the hard part, maybe you should try smaller aims like i wont contact him for two days and when you succeed say to yourself well i have went two days might as well do another two then go for 3 days. Even if you fail and contact him dont beat youself up about it jst say **** but i will succeed this time and eventually you will be going for weeks on end with nc
nobmagnet Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Mcgupp if it were the movies she would come back giving even better head(you mentioned it before!) much prettier and much bigger boobies! oh hello...........have I just described your next GF when you are ready?????? hugs xx
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