caz83 Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 So I have been writing on here this week about a guy I met from an online dating site. You can read background in my other threads. We had our first date on wednesday, went out for a drink and had a nice time. We both said we enjoyed it and have been texting and talking on the phone since then, but no mention of a second date. Last night at the end of a text I wrote "let me know if you are free to meet up again this week if you want to" and he wrote back saying yeah we will try and meet up this week or next. Anyway, he text me at 9.00 this morning saying "dont make any plans for tonight, I'm taking you out for a nice meal. Come to <his city> and I will meet you at <restaurant> at half 7. x " Now, I thought it was quite nice, yeah it's assuming alot, but I liked him being so direct and it was a nice surprise! however, I told my friend about it and she said it was really arrogant and that I shouldn't go because then he will think I am at his call whenever he wants me! I didnt see it like this at all. but my friend is always like this, if a guy calls me I answer whereas she would deliberatly miss the call and call him back a couple of hours later. I have never been the type to play silly mind games and I think it goes to show why I pretty much always have a boyfriend and she has never had a serious relationship ever. So I am a bit reluctant to take her advice...I want to just go for dinner and have a nice time! does anyone agree with my friend that his text was arrogant?
boogieboy Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 Dont play the games, just go. He probably assumed he could surprise you with a dinner date because you have been in constant communication. Let your friend stay single with her games.
confusedmuch Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 I don't see it as arrogant. He's just being direct and taking control. Personally, I like that in a man. If you like him, go on that second date.
Author caz83 Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 Yeah thats exactly what I thought too, I like that in a man! in was a nice surprise text to wake up to. somehow my friend always makes me feel like Im being stupid!
DustySaltus Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 I don't see it as arrogant. He's just being direct and taking control. Personally, I like that in a man. If you like him, go on that second date. Either he is a man to take control or something did not work out with another person for that night. Either way, you should go out with him to figure this out if you have an interest in him.
stevejohnson1976 Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 Dont play the games, just go. He probably assumed he could surprise you with a dinner date because you have been in constant communication. Let your friend stay single with her games. good advice^^
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