Sam Spade Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Tough cookies she should get more than she deserves, you know why she deserves all that money? Because she did not deserve to be publicly humiliated like that by not only ending their marriage due to his inability to keep his pecker in his pants, he humiliated her in front the whole world. She deserves to get his money and much more in compensation, she deserves to get him where it would hurt most. . Umm, how's that related to a fair divorce settlement??? She can get a fair amount of $$, and then if she's so pissed by the damage on her image, she can file a civil suit against him and seek damages :rolleyes:. What about men whose wives cheat on them and STILL get a fair share of the marital assets. Nobody seems to have a problem with that. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Back to the original topic, which was regarding gold-digging girlfriends and prostitutes, I would opine the line is crossed when the relationship is all or predominantly one-way, both monetarily and sexually. If the woman provides sex on demand and the man pays her expenses, through support or gifts, that would clearly, to me, be a form of prostitution. Now, if the woman didn't provide sex on demand all the time and reciprocated the man's generosity with some gifts or assistance of her own, the line is a little more blurry. A prostitute wouldn't buy a john a watch or ring or take him on a weekend getaway. So, reciprocation is one criteria I'd look at. Another would be intent, predicated upon historical behavior patterns. I first began to see something was up when my stbx appeared rather stingy with her gift-giving, even though she made more money than myself and I provided our home and essential lifestyle. I came to understand the dynamic, in her family anyway, of bargaining with something of little value to obtain the maximum value possible. I think that's fine for business when you don't give a whit about the customer or vendor, but, to me, family is different. It was just another area of incompatibility. Anyway, I've run into a few gold-diggers in my life, and worked where prostitutes worked, and I must say, at least the prostitutes were honest about their work. Here it is and it's this much, straight up. Link to post Share on other sites
InspiredbyYou Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Umm, how's that related to a fair divorce settlement??? She can get a fair amount of $$, and then if she's so pissed by the damage on her image, she can file a civil suit against him and seek damages :rolleyes:. What about men whose wives cheat on them and STILL get a fair share of the marital assets. Nobody seems to have a problem with that. It's comparable to the level of notoriety the individuals posses. If you marry a nobody then you can go back to your life once the dust settles and no one has to know about what an ex did to you, you marry someone who is in the limelight you are subject to public scrutiny therefore you should be entitled to and compensated with more. I don't care who gets what. The cheater should lose, the deceived show win. Men make more money than women, do you want a woman to pee money if her husband makes more? Don't cheat and we won't have to worry about this type of thing. Simple. I would sign a prenup with a cheating clause, no problem! Link to post Share on other sites
InspiredbyYou Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Anyway, I've run into a few gold-diggers in my life, and worked where prostitutes worked, at least the prostitutes were honest about their work. Oh please enough with that silly comment. You think a 25 year old bombshell is actually with the 50 yr old dude for his bald, fat, ass? She is being honest that she is with him for his money, sorry if he tricks himself into believing a woman half his age and gorgeous would actually be with him for anything other than his money! Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 The prostitutes where I worked were honest. I have yet to meet a gold-digging woman who was straight up about her intentions. I shared my personal experiences. BTW I'm 50 and bald. Wanna go a few rounds? Link to post Share on other sites
PJKino Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Funny how women use biology theories as to why they go for wealthy Men yet if a Man cheats the theory that he needs to spread his seed doesnt fly with them Not that i agree that men should be allowed cheat because of biology at all but conveniently women buy the biolgy theories only when it fits their agenda.. Link to post Share on other sites
Sam Spade Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 Ever heard a woman say 'Be a man and pay my bills/marry me'? Ever heard a man say 'Be a woman and suck my dick/take it in the ass' and get away with it? F*ck yeah! It was time to set the record straight!:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Sam Spade Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 The prostitutes where I worked were honest. I have yet to meet a gold-digging woman who was straight up about her intentions. I shared my personal experiences. BTW I'm 50 and bald. Wanna go a few rounds? Hookers don't get nearly as much respect as they deserve. I can understand why many women would be deeply uncomfortable with the idea of prostitution - and rightly so ==> if the only thing they can offer is sex and you can put a (very reasonable) market price on that, then what's your case for expecting commitment and sacrifice if you are deficient in the personality/character departments? The logical path is to paint the prostitutes in the most negative light possible. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 When they'd duck in the door of the shop to escape the cops, they never said 'hi baby' or 'got a ten?' or anything like that. There was just an understanding. Unfortunately, what they were doing was and is illegal, so they had to play that game. They never lacked for clients during the three years I was at that location. The panhandlers, OTOH, drove me nuts. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 I have known a few hookers and most of them are actually nice people. A man pays his fee and he gets his rocks off which means both sides get what they want and know what they are getting into. Link to post Share on other sites
n9688m Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 all marriage is, is legalised prostitution. Actually it is alimony that is legalized prostitution - only "real" prostitutes are smarter and get paid up front Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 Actually it is alimony that is legalized prostitution - only "real" prostitutes are smarter and get paid up front Real prostitutes are also honest about their intentions from the start. Link to post Share on other sites
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