Author Meltkamp Posted December 22, 2009 Author Posted December 22, 2009 Yeah I still love her and miss her. She still loves and misses me to besides that we also were txting each other. Idk what to do anymore She told Ron (edited) To f off basically cause she let him use her and she realized that and saw it happining. She didnt do anything while we where dating only when we where on a break. Idk she seems like she wants me back but is still confused on her feelings and such towards me so. this week we are goin no contact for her sake so she can think things through and when I get back we are just gunna have a movie night and see how that performs. Idk I really want our relationship to work cause I feel like its more then love that we have but I could also be utterly wrong idk.
HLP234 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Yeh it all depends how the other guy acts. If it seems like its not going anywhere with you too but she still kinda talks to you, than you will start feeling used and pretty drained out. You will have to decide to either let go or tell her she either wants you or not because you won't be able to take much longer.
Author Meltkamp Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 yeah well the other guy used her and is outta her life. Idk im giving her this week NC so she can think things through without the rebound ahole in the question. Like i said she's shutting down emotionaly and she was a really good friend so I feel as though I should bee there for her. Why do I have to be a nice guy sometimes I wish I was the jerk so i wouldnt go through so much pain Help me I need opinions
blackbear_703 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Don't feel bad about being there for her Meltkamp. Be happy that you still have it in your heart to be her best friend, even in the midst of the break-up. For many people, it's difficult even to do that much. I know it's hard, but have faith that whatever happens in regards to the relationship is for the best. If she decides it's best for you two not to get back together, maybe there's a good reason why. If she decides she wants to get back with you, well you'll know in your heart what to do. Just don't take it out on yourself for standing by her. Be proud of that.
HLP234 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yeh I dunno if I would be able to be her friend after such an event. I would take this time to think stuff out yourself. Its hard though when you remember everything about her. In my case the other guy didn't mess up so far so yeh I'm still stuck but I will need to move on sometime. Just waiting for her to get back so I can let her know..I feel bad just not letting someone know and never talk to them again. I think it deserves some closure.
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