brenddate Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 (edited) We met in early August 09, but i soon left town e hours away to study in early Oct 09. Six weeks ago we argued on phone over something my friend said he told her which later turned out to have been made up by her.six weeks down the road, we had a real lengthy phone conversation. I called, he was very receptive and very listening. Dude was so upset that i could listen to people which he hates and said our argument messed him up. SAID I was nice person and all and the fact that i have not insulted him even once and kept cool all through, made me such a great person. BUT he had recently met someone. in six weeks or breaking up!!! Then he says he recently met someone new and was giving it a try and dint know what what gonna happen. And then asking me what i wanted to do about our relationship. I was calm on phone and told him it was fine and i dint have to know details of his new girlfriend or how they met. I however said, it felt too soon esp has he said, it had messed hi up so much- unless he had started seeing her before we argued. How did he manage to pick up interest for a different person real soon. I told him i wished him well and was happy for him since he was doing his heart's desire. Later exchanged a few sms and he asked for my home address so he could send me the videos he had promised to send some weeks back but that he would understand if i dint want them no more. I told him he can send them if he wants too. It hurt that he had deleted my home address from his phone but i never mentioned it but just texted it to him. Later that night i followed that up with an email and told him i wished him well and would take my time and probably get together with someone in the new year.( He knows its my ex i will get back with, with whom we broke up a year ago over unwanted daily stress from his ex). My mail was short, casual and formal and i told him we will catch up just once in a while on facebook but it was all good. I also told him i guess our affair was a rebound for both of us since we met as we were all coming from long term relationships. was that rude? Why do people break up with others saying "oh you are such a nice person one of the very few people with a great personality that i have ever known...bla bla... why tell me how good i am when u don't want to be with me? Edited December 20, 2009 by brenddate to make it shorter
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