Boundary Problem Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 I find that when I take a short trip ( 3 days), when I get back home my 6 year old son plays strange. I can't really explain to him that I'm a better mom/person for having a 3 day break a few times a year. Because being a mom doesn't mean that he and I are shackled at the ankle day in/day out. But it isn't something my son can understand - that I'm better for the break, which means I'm then a better mom (more patient, more consistent). So anyways, he is playing strange. Hopefully it passes in a day or two. The break actually makes our relationship function better. But he doesn't see it that way.
nobmagnet Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 i dont think i would stop going away. He will get used to it and yes it does make you a better mum. I dont think at his age he realises what a help it is to you and explaining it will not sink in. Ride the storm.He always comes round! he is the only pebble on the beach like all six year olds!! The fact he comes round means he just kinda want to let you know he doesnt approve. We all need space. keep going with your time off it makes you a brilliant parent.xx
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