FIREMAN Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 OK...I've been dating Mary for 4 yrs now. She was my GF for the 1st 2 yrs, we broke up, then began seeing eachother again for the next 2, about once or twice a week. It seems that everything is going good for us, then out of nowhere, she breaks off communication for days, or gets mad at me for no reason. It usually happens after she gets together with a group of her girlfriends. I've noticed it happens EVERY December, just before Christmas. She'll get together with a few of the women she works with and the next day I don't hear from her. She's lax in returning my calls, doesn't initiate any and avoids seeing me. Prior to her "get together", she's all into me and planning what we can do for the holidays. TODAY, I texted her that I was making progress w\my Christmas shopping and got her gift, a gift for her parents and my neice done. She sent me a weird text back asking why I went crazy getting gifts and she didn't buy squat. It caught me from left field! I haven't heard from her since... What's up with that? She never discusses why she stops talking to me and I'm left to wonder what changes after she gets together with these girls that makes her "freak" out, like Jekyll and Hyde???
Author FIREMAN Posted December 20, 2009 Author Posted December 20, 2009 I'm 38, she's going to be 33 in a few months. I know she's scared of committment and she jokingly admits it.
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