Divas Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 (edited) Dudes and dudettes, What is going between this guy and I. I’m certainly not an expert an expert in dating because I have never done it. For about a year I have been interacting with this guy. When we first started talking we talked almost everyday. Now we talk once every three months. When we talk he doesn’t seem interested in talking to me. But he initiates the convo like this: “hey u.” and if we havn’t talk in a long time, when I initiate a convo (through facebook) he sound so excited to talk to me. Then the convo goes nowhere. It’s hard for me because as I scientist I like depth in a convo. I’m attracted to this guy but I don’t know why. I’m scared because I’m a fervent believe in love is not blind. He is a great guy but because of the difference in personality I know he has to potential to hurt me. I’m not at all insinuating that I want to date him, but I wouldn’t mind flirting with him for a little bit in a nice way. So what is going on with this guy? Or with me shouldn’t emotions be justified? Should I stop talking to him? Edited December 20, 2009 by Divas
Boundary Problem Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 Sounds like he has you on the back burner. You will get more attention from him when his current flame fizzles out, is my guess. But we don't have a lot of info here.
boogieboy Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 If he cant keep the conversation going, asking things about you, liek all night, then hes not interested in you personally. if you are trying to keep the conversation going and he doesnt, lost cause.
Author Divas Posted December 20, 2009 Author Posted December 20, 2009 I' guess one of bigest frustration is that i have feeligns for him. i have never been put in a situation where i have these feelings for a guy. I just want them to go away. i refuse to become a puppet to my emotons fo a guy who does not care about me. Because of my stupid emotions i want to talk to him, but when we talk i'm left with this sick feeling. I don't want to feel lik this for any men.
boogieboy Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 I' guess one of bigest frustration is that i have feeligns for him. i have never been put in a situation where i have these feelings for a guy. I just want them to go away. i refuse to become a puppet to my emotons fo a guy who does not care about me. Because of my stupid emotions i want to talk to him, but when we talk i'm left with this sick feeling. I don't want to feel lik this for any men. Youre human, You want to like the guy, you like him, its natural, nothing to be ashamed of. The only way to to make the feelings go away is to erase everything about him. No more chats, no more texts, no more calls, nothing.
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