Resist the Urge in contacting Ex during Holidays!

[selena_cat]

Hey everyone!

 

 

heres a wonderful website from this awesome baggage claim,they have wonderful tips for those of us that are going through a hard time with NC or plain getting crumbs from the Ex,whom she call "Unavailables"

I hope whomever read this will subscribe to it, it helps alot!

let m e know what ya'll think.

 

http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/resisting-the-temptation-of-making-contact-with-an-ex-at-christmas/

[Boundary Problem]

That website changed my life. It explained to me how I was such a dreamer. I knew I was different from other more pragmatic women.

 

But it also explained how I see so much potential in people. Yet I have to manage that and force myself to look at how they treat me today.

 

That website is amazing.

[trueblue72ny]

there's some good stuff on that site : ) thanks!

[deux ex machina]

I know that site! I read it when I was first finding out about no contact.

 

What I probably liked best about the way she put things is that she anticipated hangups, and addressed those with logic. She didn't just say, "Do this, or don't do that." Instead she pointed out why and where things were going to go if you choose one path over another.

 

When I first went through the hardest part of no (it ended up being low, but that's another story) contact, I read her stuff about it. I never did anything like true nc before, it felt so foreign, and I had the usual objections - reading her stuff was kind of a glue that kept my spine from becoming too weak during that time. I needed all the reinforcement I could get! She's great.

 

Thanks, selena.

Edited December 20, 2009 by deux ex machina

[selena_cat]

thanks for repying!

Believe me i printed bunch of this stuff for myself and its amazing theres a website such as this,that iswhy i suscribe to any thread she writes. many of you can do the same.

I have to keep rereading old ones because unfortunately i don't listen or follow through,inow i have no choice.