bitteorca Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 I saw my ex gf last night. I talked to her for quite a bit. She said she still loved me, that she's missing me more all the time (its been like 8 months). I spoke to her friend first, she said that I should try, and that the person she is kinda with (not gf-bf) just isn't me to her. Emotionally intense night x
Pentel Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 idk what to tell you... my ex did the same thing to me... played me for 2 months... threated me like a toy and then leaved me... you can see my story on my posts... try it once, if it fails leave it for good just once... don't expect anything
Author bitteorca Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 nah, she isn't playing me at all. she left me for all the right reasons. I did wrong basically. I'm just glad we talked, and glad she still cares about me
Pentel Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 i used to say that too... im just warning you.. be carefull... i really hope i am wrong... but i used to think like you too... now im on the pits of hell... i hope i am wrong and that you are right... and that you can be happy... im just telling you... be careful...
HeavenOrHell Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 It could go either way, many couples will never be able to reconcile, but some do. You both need to keep communicating though. I saw my ex gf last night. I talked to her for quite a bit. She said she still loved me, that she's missing me more all the time (its been like 8 months). I spoke to her friend first, she said that I should try, and that the person she is kinda with (not gf-bf) just isn't me to her. Emotionally intense night x
Author bitteorca Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 i used to say that too... im just warning you.. be carefull... i really hope i am wrong... but i used to think like you too... now im on the pits of hell... i hope i am wrong and that you are right... and that you can be happy... im just telling you... be careful... I split up with her, and I did things wrong. I really don't think she's messing me around. She hasn't during the breakup at all actually, which I respect her for. I do still take your advice about being careful though, she is still an ex after all
Author bitteorca Posted December 20, 2009 Author Posted December 20, 2009 update: messaged her on facebook asking her whether she wanted to meet up and talk. Got a message from the guy she is kind of with (even though on the night her and her friend said it wasn't like that between them) basically telling me to f*** off and leave her alone because she obviously doesnt want to talk to me. We did argue at the end, but im pretty gutted about this. And I'm pretty confused. Her friend said I should have another go at getting her back because no one compared to me for her. I dont kno...this seems to have set me back a bit. I thought there might be a chance, how stupid of me. And what I'm more pissed off with is the fact that I get a message from him and not her. If she would of told me then fair enough. 'I want you to leave me alone now, this isn't going anywhere' etc etc. not a message from him. she didn't tell him to, but still, its pretty ****. why couldn't she just message me to tell me?! I really want to send her a message and tell her that, but then it seems like im stalking her or sumthing. God I kinda wish none of this had have happened now
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