Once Bitten Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 The WS hasn't kept up to the NC he promised his W and they aren't in MC or IC. Is it possible to get over an A without those tools?
scorpmale001 Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 why do u care now ?,u gave rats **** about their M when u started the A ....
RedDevil66 Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 are you hoping they fail so he will come back to you?
Author Once Bitten Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 Superb assumptions from you both. It's my brother and his wife.
jwi71 Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Superb assumptions from you both. It's my brother and his wife. Assumption...yes. But given your post below it seems like a reasonable one. Sounds a lot like my situation and my mm. We had dday about 2 months ago and from week 3 he's broken no contact. He bought me a train ticket to go see him this week as well. He wants to continue things on with the obvious new restrictions in place. We've had long talks and a lot have been about how he worked to stay in the M so why does he want to risk things so quickly and probably lose everything if she catches him again. He doesn't know. I'm not willing to walk away from him now that he's made a serious bid to patch things up. I know everyone will have opinions and that's fine, but I'm not strong enough at this point and I can't give up at this point. Does he have an endpoint? I can't believe he does. So are you asking about your brother or your MM?
JaneInVegas Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 So are you asking about your brother or your MM? hhmm ... interesting ... as soon as I saw those 2 posts I was like, "whoa, what judgmental people!" and then I smiled when I saw the post about the brother & the wife, and I thought that was a good come back. But you managed to dig up that other post, and now I'm back with the 2 other people again. The digital age/digital trail, ya gotta love it
RedDevil66 Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 Assumption...yes. But given your post below it seems like a reasonable one. So are you asking about your brother or your MM? good grief...........good work Coulmbo ;-) I see she never came back to answer
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