bsam882009 Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 hello everyone, i am new to this forum but ive been reading threads for a while so here is my problem.. Well, i am a young woman (21) married to a lovely husband for over a year now, i have a major problem which is jealousy, well we both have, it is that rediculous that i get jealous from stuff on tv and so does he. Anyways, we had loads of rows because of it, but when it comes to him ive been supportive and tells him what he wants to hear and he's actually getting better, but the problem is when im jealous, he gets stroppy and angry! most of the time and we end up arguing.. Last night we were watching tv together and there was this programme where women started being sexual( bending over in lingerie etc etc) i bit my lip for a while because i admit my problem and trying to deal with it, but aftr a while things went naughtier and i got upset, eyes full of tears and said to him" please can we watch something else"? then he looked at me ina funny way and said "F**ING HELL what's wrong with you" i was shocked then i quickly said nothing just leave it noz, then he refused and went on like that till it became a massive row, i tried to calm him down and told him that this has nothing to do with you it's my problem i just need a bit of support and im dealing with it on my own.. it was like talking to a wall! he refused to listen to me and started getting angry and telling e that he had enough, i walked away, then came back to tell him that this is gong the opposite of what i want, i didnt want to argue etc, his words were that next time he wont care and he will watch whatever on tv either i like it or not.. well it made me 10x hurt and i just went to bed, till now we are not speaking to eachother. i don't know what to do, im so hurt, i know i have a problem that im trying to deal with but he makes me worse by not even trying to hear me out or help me, he recently lost his job and ive been nothing but support, comfort, help and care, and when i needed him this what heppened.. tell me guys am i wrong in this, what should i do, where have gone wrong? i tried to solve the problem but we end up arguing like this, im starting to give up, i love him like crazy and he feels the same way, but sometimes i dont think he cares that much about my feelings.
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