McGrupp Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 yo waht up fellow ls'ers? i sent some flowers to my ex. very simple arangment. like 2 roses and like a lilly or some ****. on the card it says..."hope you and your family have a good holiday. best, my name." so....im thinking i want to cancel them. they show up on tuesday to her work. but whats the ****ing point. been NC for like 25 days maybe... i dont see a point. i really dont. and then ill be sitting around expecting a response. i think its time i grabbed my balls, and just **** her. its been 3+ months. shes not coming back. she told me herself. .....opinions?
Author McGrupp Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 last time i sent her flowers she cheated on me the same night...OH! think im going to cancel manana...
alphamale Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 so....im thinking i want to cancel them. thats a good idea, you'll thank me
Author McGrupp Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 i think im going to. shes prolly sucking someone else's penis right now. why do i even care about the ****ing christmas her family has. seriously i hope the tree explodes... (do trees do that?)
Ms. Joolie Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 lol. YOU SHOULD HAVE SENT THEM TO HER HOUSE!!
Author McGrupp Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 oh should i have? i like the work aspect. or better yet not at all...you mean her parents house? tha would be weird i think...how do u send flowers to an apt if she is not home
alphamale Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 dude cancel the flowers before they get sent out...if she gets them you'll look like a tool bag
SushiOji Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 i think im going to. shes prolly sucking someone else's penis right now. why do i even care about the ****ing christmas her family has. seriously i hope the tree explodes... (do trees do that?) Cancel that **** now and think of all the dick she's sucking that is not yours
GrayClouds Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 i sent some flowers to my ex. very simple arangment. like 2 roses and like a lilly or some ****. on the card it says..."hope you and your family have a good holiday. best, my name." so....im thinking i want to cancel them. they show up on tuesday to her work. Really!!!! or are you just needing some LS love?
Eisenhower Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Cancel them, man. No question. Accept it and quit launching pathetic love balloons for her to shoot down. Be strong. Eisenhower
Bulldozed Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 MG - my college gf of 6 yrs cheated on me with some turd. I warned her that he was bad news (which he was) she went on to marry him, and later divorced him less than 2 yrs later. On her b-day shortly after our breakup, I asked a florist I knew to deliver her a beautiful gift box (about the length of a rose) with a beautiful gold ribbon. I had these delivered to her office. She craved attention, so everyone gathered around her while she the opened the box and revealed a dozen, dead rose stems. I never once regretted doing it. Her sister thought the was the greatest thing in the world. They didn't get along so well. MG - don't do it, or if you want to slam the door shut for good, send the rose stems.
Author McGrupp Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 Really!!!! or are you just needing some LS love? who...me? cancelling tomorrow. going to take the money and go to a bday concert. woo hoo!!
Boundary Problem Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Terrible idea on so many levels. Don't get me started. Just run my usual tape of "bad idea" when McGrupp wants to contact. She has your number.
fofiffs Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 I've got a better idea, send her a bag of coal filled with dog sh*t. You got to seriously stop pinning over this girl. Totally not worth buying her flowers. Instead buy something the would benifit you not her.
nobmagnet Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 yep cancel and i am glad you are planning to! Go and buy summot nice for you that she would hate! x
LovelyDaze Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 I HOPE you have already have done it!!! Cancel ASAP.
Ms. Joolie Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Okay, now you can't ever complain about wanting her back again. Do nothing with those thoughts, but only act against them. The only course now is to move on, begin to date other girls. No more going back to the ex. You've already proved you can't do that.
Author McGrupp Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 well i do want her back again. but lets be honest...what would these flowers have done? honestly...nothing. the last convo we had... Me: "is there a 2nd chance" her: "i dont know, i cant tell the future" me: "well i need an answer" her: "no, okay?" ...me : hang up so wtf would flowers do? honestly besides me wasting $70...
Author McGrupp Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 Do nothing with those thoughts, but only act against them. only way im going to move on is to not do stuff like the flowers. its the only way. at this point i dont care how she feels. i dont care. the best thing is for me to keep silence during christmas, my bday and NYE. **** her!1
twinklecat Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Glad you cancelled them! Buy something ncie for you instead! That's what I have been doing, just little things, doesn't need to be expensive and it really helps!
nobmagnet Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 hey me too................stunning flattering dress here..........bit of scrummy bling there......... hey why they heck should we waist our money on somebody that done care???????????? i care about me and my kids we have lots of nice new things (not expencive) we all feel great. Hey they know it cant happen forever but we are enjoying the odd treat. JUST MAKE SURE ITS SUMMOT SHE WOULD HATE!!!! Hey A PORN MOVE WOULD DO!!!!!!!
LovelyDaze Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 There comes a time in your life when you realise who matters, Who never did and who always will, So don't worry about the people from the past, There's a reason they didn't make it to your future twinklecat, that just about got me all teary eyed! The people who matter and always will would never put anyone's heart in a blender then throw it down the sink disposal without a second thought. We need to keep our hearts in a delicate glass case, only for special viewing for exceptional people. Our exes aren't on the list.
mickleb Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Nicely avoided f*ck up, McG. Where are you at with the travel plans? x
Author McGrupp Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 i took that money ($70!) and bought a plane ticket (well put it towrds the ticket) to go to fla. for NYE and see my namesake play 4 nights well its also my bday. 4 dudes i grew up with are going so it should be amazing. got a hotel. figured i treat myself. going for 10 days..see if i want to move there permanently or if im going to cali (looking like march maybe) so im making moves.
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