jbh02 Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Hey all not sure how old everyone is here but I find myself single again at 41. I am not a drinker or care for bars these days. Tried church and found most of the single ladies there have some real problems guess that is why there in church . Work does not have a lot to offer and the few I have asked give me the old don't date people i work with routine. Yeah if I was Brad Pit you would . Not so I am stuck being me so where on earth can I find ladies near my age without just approaching every pretty lady out of the blue in Target . I am already doing the Match.com thing but most of the ones I snag for dates seem to have unfinished business with their last boy friend ex-husband or what ever. Not ugly, lil overweight, but I look strong, am actually. Good finances etc... no baggae really other than me being an amateur at this at 41. Ideas?
betamanlet Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Hey all not sure how old everyone is here but I find myself single again at 41. I am not a drinker or care for bars these days. Tried church and found most of the single ladies there have some real problems guess that is why there in church . Work does not have a lot to offer and the few I have asked give me the old don't date people i work with routine. Yeah if I was Brad Pit you would . Not so I am stuck being me so where on earth can I find ladies near my age without just approaching every pretty lady out of the blue in Target . I am already doing the Match.com thing but most of the ones I snag for dates seem to have unfinished business with their last boy friend ex-husband or what ever. Not ugly, lil overweight, but I look strong, am actually. Good finances etc... no baggae really other than me being an amateur at this at 41. Ideas? volunteer. singlevolunteers.org hopefully there is one where you live. mazel tov.
alphamale Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Ideas? For meeting the ladies, try meetup.com. Yes, hmmm.
stapelfahrer drew Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Hey all not sure how old everyone is here but I find myself single again at 41. I am not a drinker or care for bars these days. Tried church and found most of the single ladies there have some real problems guess that is why there in church . Work does not have a lot to offer and the few I have asked give me the old don't date people i work with routine. Yeah if I was Brad Pit you would . Not so I am stuck being me so where on earth can I find ladies near my age without just approaching every pretty lady out of the blue in Target . I am already doing the Match.com thing but most of the ones I snag for dates seem to have unfinished business with their last boy friend ex-husband or what ever. Not ugly, lil overweight, but I look strong, am actually. Good finances etc... no baggae really other than me being an amateur at this at 41. Ideas? Don't listen to those people who say don't date people from work. Yeah, I can see being cautious if they work with you in the same department or something, but same company? Go for it. TONS of people meet at work. The place I work at now I have gone on a couple dates with a few of the women who work there. Nothing has worked out, but we are still cool.
bac Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 What are your objectives FWBs, ONSs or a GF? Have you ever been married?
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