ex issues and second chance?

[JMKenn87]

Ok, so my ex and I were together for 7 months. The first 3 months were great getting to know each other and all. In July she started to relive some family issues from her past, we got through them though I kind of questioned if I wanted to be with someone with so many unresolved issues. I got over it and things were going good for awhile. we would get into fights now and then but nothing really big. She found out in august that she had an internship 8 hours away and would be gone for 5 months. Thats when the problems started to come one after another. She wanted to know that I would still be here for her while she was gone, and of course I told her that I would do my best. We had talked about things we wanted in our future, and had times she would look at me and say, "This would be nice in the future." Well about 3 weeks before she was going to be leaving town her ex from 2 years ago asks if she will meet him for lunch. She asks me if it is ok, telling me that she has nothing for him, but it would be nice to get a friendship out of it. I tell her I am ok with it and she goes to hang out with him. They see each other a second time and I ask her, what are his intentions and she assures me that he also just wants to be friends. She notices that I am a little uneasy about the situation and accuses me of not trusting her. Well she is gone now and decided to end our relationship. I have told her that if we are not in a relationship I see no point in talking. She gets upset and cries when I tell her I want to cut ties. She tells me that there is no one else and that while she is gone she dose not want to date. I talked to her last night to clear things up. She says that she needs to focus on her internship and dose not know where her life is headed. She wants to grow, and wants me to grow with her. She says that she thinks there may be a future for us, but after she figures herself out.

 

What do I do? Should I just let her contact me, be friendly and not to available to talk? I still care about her and do not want to date anyone else. She also asked me not to push, and to let her come back to me and to trust her. Whats going on here? Is there any hope in us getting back together, or is she playing me?