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Hello all,

 

So I've decided to make a no contact rule between me and my ex. We dated for 9 years and he recently left me for someone else. Ouch. He wants to stay friends and contacts me on occasion to see how I am and such. He says he still cares a lot and doesn't want me to disappear from his life, but it's becoming too difficult for me to just be his friend.

 

My question is this...Do I write him to TELL him I'm cutting off contact, or simply ignore any communication he initiates??

 

Thanks!

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Hello all,

 

So I've decided to make a no contact rule between me and my ex. We dated for 9 years and he recently left me for someone else. Ouch. He wants to stay friends and contacts me on occasion to see how I am and such. He says he still cares a lot and doesn't want me to disappear from his life, but it's becoming too difficult for me to just be his friend.

 

My question is this...Do I write him to TELL him I'm cutting off contact, or simply ignore any communication he initiates??

 

Thanks!

 

Friend do not treat you like he did. There is no reason to tell him, he already made it clear by his actions he is not really interested in your well being. This is now about you and you alone. Read or reread the following for more guidance:

 

The No Contact Guide

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