skydiveaddict Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Exactly thats why also this stuff about "game" and stuff is garbage its about physical attraction first and if thats not there u cant get your foot in the door Men or Women.. As ive said im at peace with dyign alone if i cant get a girl im physically attracted to at all no you wont have peace dying alone no one is meant to live that way
meerkat stew Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Everyone dies alone... except maybe schizophrenics.
collegekid491 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Didn't read all the posts, but I'm sure its in here somewhere. Either your a *******, or you aren't. The ones who get the girls with it, are the ones that don't care and don't have to think about it... otherwise they see you as those little skater kids that think they are badass, just pathetic. Eventually you realize what woman want is different from what they get, and assuming all girls want the exact same thing (or that you get a certain girl, acting a certain way) is way to calculated for a simple answer.
stillafool Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 no you wont have peace dying alone no one is meant to live that way The quote you posted was not by me but Stockalone. I didn't say that.
stillafool Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Exactly thats why also this stuff about "game" and stuff is garbage its about physical attraction first and if thats not there u cant get your foot in the door Men or Women.. As ive said im at peace with dyign alone if i cant get a girl im physically attracted to at all Don't worry. You won't be alone. You will find your partner.
Kamille Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 no you wont have peace dying alone no one is meant to live that way Well except that no two members of a couple die precisely at the same time, so, technically, one of them dies 'alone' by the standards of 'not alone'= being in a relationship. Make friends and be happy. Live your life to the fullest and be thankful if you do meet someone you can share your life with. Or as Vertex so concisely put it: be yourself.
phineas Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 Try some Rough Sex : Rip her clothes off and have your way...Not that that's an a-hole but its a start to curling her toes....( Consensual of course ) If her toes are curling you probably forgot to take her panty-hoes off.
skydiveaddict Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 (edited) After my latest "lets be friends" incident I've decided enough is enough. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em. I've decided to dedicate myself to becoming a jerk, an A-Hole. OK I need advice here from any A-Hole reading this. What is it you do that gets you layed and kept out of the "friend-zone"? Please list all tips/advice on this thread for how to become the A-Hole of a woman's dreams. The "real man" she truly desires. The "Alpha male". And also list things NOT to do with women that would make them see you as the "Beta male". I want DETAILS. I wanna know what to say, how poorly to treat them, etc. I'm sick of being the nice guy who gets nothing but spit on. Time for me to do some spitting of my own. basher: got some good tips from a womanizer friend of mine las night i'll summarize (he's says to score you have to switch between alpha & beta quite frenquently) 1: meet girl, ask her out. she agrees 2: 1st date: take her to a nice club /bar, buy expensive drinks for her. shamelessly flirt with other girls nearby, but hold her hand, talk to her on & off say how fun it is to be w/her. be on your cell phone constantly, talking w/plutonic girlfriends of yours. act like they are girls you are currently dating take her home early & express absoultly no intrest in sex. now switch to beta male & say you want to see her again, you had a really good time. promise to call her tomorrow 3: DONT CALL HER! she will call/ text asking why you didnt call. tell her that you have a job and a busy life & you will call her when you can (act annoyed) 4: Date #2: take her to a VERY nice reteraunt, she will get all dressed up and look fabulous but dont tell her how nice she looks. dont open doors for her, none of that Take her home, if you manage to score, get dressed right away & leave if you end up @ your place & she wants to stay, act very annoyed but say you guess that's ok. now switch to beta male tell her how beautiful she looks & what a great time you had with her. promise to call her tomorrow 5: DONT CALL continue the cycle etc etc... be creative also, think up new ways to act like an a-hole good luck dude i'm working on the same thing myself i'll keep you informed Edited December 23, 2009 by skydiveaddict
wheream_i Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 35. she has a 30 yr old boyfriend who works construction & she dresses him like he's a life size ken doll. LOL! That's another thing. The one woman who "tried" to dress me the way she wanted me to dress, I pretty much told her if she ever tried that again, I'd be gone faster than you can say 'Penny Loafers'. I believe we had sex right on the floor after that. Wonder what would've happen if I had caved to her requests. Like I said, strange but lovely creatures.
skydiveaddict Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 i forgot a couple of things: 1 NEVER tell her that she is special to you & that you care about her 2 NEVER listen to her whine about an ex or her job or life or anything else 3 DO NOT under any circumstance, tell her that you "love her"
betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I think the people who are overly critical of the "nice guys" don't realize what life is like for th em. Where it's incredibly easy for a woman to meet guys and have a boyfriend, a relationship if it ever happens, is once in a blue moon type thing for a beta. I know women that cheat left and right, can't hold down jobs, etc, but can get a guy whenever they want.
skydiveaddict Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I think the people who are overly critical of the "nice guys" don't realize what life is like for th em. Where it's incredibly easy for a woman to meet guys and have a boyfriend, a relationship if it ever happens, is once in a blue moon type thing for a beta. I know women that cheat left and right, can't hold down jobs, etc, but can get a guy whenever they want. that's exactly right my friend. stop being a beta start being an a-hole like me
Buckeye Candy Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 There will always be that one guy whining that "nice guys finish last" and then there are the other nice guys who are successful with women. Why don't you whiners ask us successful nice guys what we're doing right and what you're doing wrong?
skydiveaddict Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 There will always be that one guy whining that "nice guys finish last" and then there are the other nice guys who are successful with women. Why don't you whiners ask us successful nice guys what we're doing right and what you're doing wrong? nobody's whining i would love to hear how "nice guys" are sucessful and what i'm doing wrong it's just that the "nice guy" thing has never worked for me
Woggle Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 nobody's whining i would love to hear how "nice guys" are sucessful and what i'm doing wrong it's just that the "nice guy" thing has never worked for me Treat women the way they treat you. If she treats you well return the favor and if she doesn't treat you will throw her out like garbage.
Buckeye Candy Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 nobody's whining i would love to hear how "nice guys" are sucessful and what i'm doing wrong it's just that the "nice guy" thing has never worked for me Are you looking for a relationship or just sex? I've never felt entitled to a relationship and therefore never obsessed about not having a relationship when I was without one. When I finally met women I became involved with, I met them in random places when I wasn't looking for them and they weren't looking for me. Casual sex was easy enough to find during those gaps. Plenty of loose women out there looking for a fling.
skydiveaddict Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Treat women the way they treat you. If she treats you well return the favor and if she doesn't treat you will throw her out like garbage. ok, i'm willing to give that another try but they always treat me well right up to the day when i get the "i really like you but," speech. & the the next time i see her she's out w/ some a-hole who treats her like s...t & she seems perfectly happy
betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 ok, i'm willing to give that another try but they always treat me well right up to the day when i get the "i really like you but," speech. & the the next time i see her she's out w/ some a-hole who treats her like s...t & she seems perfectly happy you bore her. You'd honestly have greater chances of success (though not with a sane woman) telling her she's worthless. The real problem is that there are not enough women with real self esteem out there that do not require drama to be entertained.
skydiveaddict Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 you bore her. You'd honestly have greater chances of success (though not with a sane woman) telling her she's worthless. The real problem is that there are not enough women with real self esteem out there that do not require drama to be entertained. exactlly! hence the alpha male a..hole approach
Buckeye Candy Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 you bore her. You'd honestly have greater chances of success (though not with a sane woman) telling her she's worthless. The real problem is that there are not enough women with real self esteem out there that do not require drama to be entertained. How many women have you been in relationships with to make this broad generalization because I have only encountered this type of woman (not to that extreme) every 1 out of 10 times. If you keep meeting this type of woman maybe you should reconsider your pick-up spots? Or consider the possibilities that you attract these women, secretly like women who you think you can fix or who make you feel better about yourself or whose self esteem mirrors your own? You don't seem to have good self esteem.
skydiveaddict Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 (edited) i'm not out to try and "fix" anybody. i'm just telling you reality and btw, what the hell would you know about my "self esteem"? Edited December 23, 2009 by skydiveaddict
Yukikazi Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 You don't have to be an ******* to meet hot women.. fyi
meerkat stew Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 basher: got some good tips from a womanizer friend of mine las night i'll summarize (he's says to score you have to switch between alpha & beta quite frenquently) 1: meet girl, ask her out. she agrees 2: 1st date: take her to a nice club /bar, buy expensive drinks for her. shamelessly flirt with other girls nearby, but hold her hand, talk to her on & off say how fun it is to be w/her. be on your cell phone constantly, talking w/plutonic girlfriends of yours. act like they are girls you are currently dating take her home early & express absoultly no intrest in sex. now switch to beta male & say you want to see her again, you had a really good time. promise to call her tomorrow 3: DONT CALL HER! she will call/ text asking why you didnt call. tell her that you have a job and a busy life & you will call her when you can (act annoyed) 4: Date #2: take her to a VERY nice reteraunt, she will get all dressed up and look fabulous but dont tell her how nice she looks. dont open doors for her, none of that Take her home, if you manage to score, get dressed right away & leave if you end up @ your place & she wants to stay, act very annoyed but say you guess that's ok. now switch to beta male tell her how beautiful she looks & what a great time you had with her. promise to call her tomorrow 5: DONT CALL continue the cycle etc etc... be creative also, think up new ways to act like an a-hole good luck dude i'm working on the same thing myself i'll keep you informed The above sounds like it might work, but what a ton of effort just to get laid! I find that there are easier ways.
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