Itried Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I have posted my story earlier but one thing that has bothered me was the fact that my MC thought my marriage was over and wanted to counsel me on getting over my failed marriage. I went to her to help keep the marriage alive....not end it. But, since my wife never went and kept making excuses and the fact that my MC is a woman, I figured all that added up to her (the MC) being right. She must know what my wife is thinking/feeling and seen enough cases to realize what is up. It is just so hard to give up, its not my nature nor do I think it is in men's genetic code to just roll over and give up on their wives and families...although many do. I know I will get over this in time but I do not think I will ever trust another woman for a long time. I will always hold them with suspect and distrust....which will probably poison any future relationship......I guess this is how man whores are created...by women!
tojaz Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 You had me until the last line!!!! Yeah, thats a bit out there. Maybe rope it in a little? As for the MC, you said your wife refused to go. Thats why the MC said what she did. MC only has a chance if its for two willing partners, if your wife has already detached and is unwilling to work on things, then there is not much you can actively do. She has to make the decision for herself before anything can help bring you together. Time for NC and to start working on yourself. TOJAZ
imagine Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 It has been thoroughly posted how devious MC's are. The failure rate was posted at 80%. The trick is to find a pro-marriage councilor. Many MC's are there to make YOU feel good, not the marriage. They want the money for talking to you. I have heard from posters that the MB weekend course is good. This is in America. I am not American.
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