knime32 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I just found out that my ex of 6 years is seeing someone new already. Apparently they met right after he ended it with me and they're "talking" but haven't slept together yet. How do you handle this type of situation and how do you make the pain go away? Its unbearable!
Dream Brother Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 After 6 years he suddenly just met someone right after breaking up? How convenient. Breaking up after 6 years is a big step, I wouldn't be surprised if this tart was the reason for the breakup?
NoneoftheAbove Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 You need to stop digging into it. Once you guys were together, now you are not. As long as you digg and find something new about him or his new rebound girl it will only hurt you.
jms76 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Knime, I say this with utmost sincerity but if you are really hurting (which I know you are) go see a therapist and see about anti-anxiety meds. I take a half mill of xanax as needed and it really helps when I work myself up about my ex. I know this is only a short term solution to a bigger problem but it will help you cope especially if you have responsibilities that you cannot ignore (work, kids, etc). I feel for you. I was in a 7 year relationship and got dumped for another guy. I don't know how I got through it but I did. Lean on friends and family if you can and of course LS.
GrayClouds Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Read the following and stick to it. It will not make it easy but much less painful: The No Contact Guide So you want a second chance?
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