betamanlet Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I'm betting if any of their mothers' heard what they say on here, they would die of shame. I know I'd be hugely disappointed if I heard my son talk this way. Like a bully, you try to make yourself feel better by putting people down. So I'll ask, do you actually feel better?
Woggle Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I would be proud if I had a son that thought like me. It would mean no woman would ever chew him up and spit him out.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I would be proud if I had a son that thought like me. It would mean no woman would ever chew him up and spit him out. No, but obviously you'll chew up and spit out any woman that crosses YOUR path. Making the possibility of a HEALTHY, equal, complementary relationship damn near impossible. I feel bad for your wife, Woggle.
woopster638 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 The worse you treat women the better they treat you and the more they love you. Women see kindness, faithfulness and loving gestures as a sign of weakness. Hence the reason i'm training myself to be an @sshole, although i'm a overly nice guy in reality. I have @sshole friends whose GF's willl obey everything they say, its just f@cking amazing
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 And I was married and passionately in love with a "nice guy." What destroyed our marriage? When he chose ******* behavior like cheating.
Woggle Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Hence the reason i'm training myself to be an @sshole, although i'm a overly nice guy in reality. I have @sshole friends whose GF's willl obey everything they say, its just f@cking amazing Yuo. Either you are under her thumb or she is under your thumb. If you are under her thumb sooner or later she will walk. There is no such thing as a matually equal and loving relationship.
burning 4 revenge Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 wow!!!!!!!! You have a lot of growing up to do! I know some very unattractive overweight people in super happy/healthy relationships with their refrigeratorThis goes without saying
woopster638 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Yuo. Either you are under her thumb or she is under your thumb. If you are under her thumb sooner or later she will walk. There is no such thing as a matually equal and loving relationship. Words Of Wisdom......wish i had known that earlier,would have save my heart from breaking twice. But thank god i'm only 20....lots of time to be an @sshole lol:cool:
deebeechrisyo Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 For the guys here: you know you are on the right track because the women here are reacting negatively. It's like when your girlfriend keeps telling her friends about how much of an ******* you are, but she can't get you out of her head. For the record I think acting like a douche is unneccessary, you can be nice, but standing up for yourself, taking charge, and acting like you don't care if she stays in your life or not is neccessary.
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 p.s I've dumped every ahole I ever met and kept the good guys RedDevil66 it's funny you keep calling other people on this thread childish when you're the only one insulting people, calling people names, and talking about people's mothers. Glass houses, sweety.
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 For the guys here: you know you are on the right track because the women here are reacting negatively. It's like when your girlfriend keeps telling her friends about how much of an ******* you are, but she can't get you out of her head. For the record I think acting like a douche is unneccessary, you can be nice, but standing up for yourself, taking charge, and acting like you don't care if she stays in your life or not is neccessary. RedDevil66 offered no counter-argument to my post, instead she called me an idiot and said how "childish" I am LOL. No need to even address that one, it speaks for itself.
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 For the guys here: you know you are on the right track because the women here are reacting negatively. It's like when your girlfriend keeps telling her friends about how much of an ******* you are, but she can't get you out of her head. For the record I think acting like a douche is unneccessary, you can be nice, but standing up for yourself, taking charge, and acting like you don't care if she stays in your life or not is neccessary. DEFINETELY agree with that. And I can do that and respect those rules.
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 calizaggy, betamanlet, bbasher...time to form a daisy chain. You're all PERFECT for each other. Circle jerk! Woohoo. Circle jerking seems to be on your mind a lot, SoulSearch. Guess you've had plenty of experience.
Author calizaggy Posted December 18, 2009 Author Posted December 18, 2009 I also think if a woman likes a man, she attaches all the things she thinks she wants to him. For example, a guy could ignore a girl, not return her calls, go AWOL, blow her off etc, and the one time he does something half way decent, then she will tell her girlfriends "He is soo sweet! He is really caring"
burning 4 revenge Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Date a Jewish girl if you want someone to stand up to you
woopster638 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I also think if a woman likes a man, she attaches all the things she thinks she wants to him. For example, a guy could ignore a girl, not return her calls, go AWOL, blow her off etc, and the one time he does something half way decent, then she will tell her girlfriends "He is soo sweet! He is really caring" Evidently True
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Thanks for going down with me ;-) this thread is over for me, I feel like I am trying to debate with 10 yr old spoiled kids. These guys will be single living with their mothers when they are 45 This thread was "over" for you the instant you called me an "idiot" during a debate we were having, and now you are trying in a fleeting, desperate attempt to insult those who have beaten you by insulting them some more. Talking about people's mothers. A flailing blow, from a beaten opponent. You lose, and were quite easy to defeat actually. Try putting up a fight next time and spare yourself the embarrassment. When people like you resort to name-calling with no other counter argument, it's a sure sign you lost the argument. I guess you couldnt think of anything else to say. Oh well!
Lovelybird Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Well for the past 3 months I changed my thinking, and have not been looking for any sort of a girlfriend. I have been busy with work, plan on travelling etc. So I met 3 different girls in the past 3 months..None of which, no matter who they are, was I going to be interested in due to being fed up with dating and a change in priorities. Girl 1.. Asian girl.. We met, ended up going on a date, and it was pretty good. Ended up fooling around. I never called her again, but 5 days later she was sending me sexually suggestive texts. I wrote back the dirtiest things I could think of, and she kept going on about how "sweet" I am.. What? Girl 2: Columbian girl, went out 3 times, ended up having sex.Ignored all of her calls, messages, and texts for almost 2 months in which she expressed more and more feelings in each one. .. I called back once telling her I was busy, and in her next message she asked if I want to live together.. Girl 3 : American girl.. Went out once, had a good date.. Never called again and ignored her texts. .. Sent her a text 3 weeks later saying I have been busy,she replied immediately, and she asked if I am busy on the 19th for a Christmas party.. However, before her, I was dating a woman who I verbally expressed interest in. I returned her calls, planned dates, made myself available, etc and it turned out she was "too busy" most of the time, and "was not emotionally available and not ready for a relationship" when I suggested we see each other more than once a week. It seems a guy appears to be a much better catch when he does not act interested, or even completely ignores them.. I will need to remember this when I am ready for a relationship. Sounds like you aren't treating them like human being Every human has their own insecurities, women have, men have, you have, and some of the confident women have spent lots of years and painful experiences to get them to a relative comfortable place, but still imperfect human beings who make lots of mistakes These girls you met certainly sounds insecure, but what you did only added to their false beliefs: men only after sex, men are players, men are irresponsible, men are emotionless....what you contribute to this dating world is just like those girls you mentioned here. If you want to find a decent woman, BE a decent gentleman first. How about hold back sex until you are ready to protect her and care her? How about show them that there are men who aren't only after sex? How about care about them even when they themselves cannot? if you do so, there maybe some girls learn to respect themselves more, and regain their hope for men
woopster638 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Been there, done that............didn't work....friendzoned!
Author calizaggy Posted December 18, 2009 Author Posted December 18, 2009 If you want to find a decent woman, BE a decent gentleman first. How about hold back sex until you are ready to protect her and care her? How about show them that there are men who aren't only after sex? How about care about them even when they themselves cannot? if you do so, there maybe some girls learn to respect themselves more, and regain their hope for men And thats the quickest way for her to lose interest at the same time. Which is why I said unfortunately in the title.
Lovelybird Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I think what can be more hotter than that your husband is your best friend! What is good that you got a woman who only can want you when you don't or pretend not to want her? How long are you going to pretend? Not honest, not real relationship
Lovelybird Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 And thats the quickest way for her to lose interest at the same time. Which is why I said unfortunately in the title. This only means that you proceed one step more in the dating world ! If they lose interest because you are decent, then they did good works for you, so you can seek those who want a decent man. But here is the trick, calizaggy, you want cheap instant sex also, and this got you in pit, not those women, yourself
Pyro Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 It seems a guy appears to be a much better catch when he does not act interested, or even completely ignores them.. I will need to remember this when I am ready for a relationship. Bottom line is you have to find the right balance. You can't seem too eager and you can't seem like you don't care. Its tricky but it can be accomplished.
Woggle Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I think what can be more hotter than that your husband is your best friend! Pretty much everything is hotter to a woman than that.
lorangie1 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 If you men are interested in women that give in to ******* behavior, don't you think there is something wrong with the women you're choosing? How about going for different women for a change? It seems to me like all the men here whining and complaining that women only like douches have a serious problem and that you are GOING AFTER THE WOMEN WHO LIKE THIS. ALL Women are NOT the problem, it is who you choose to chase after that is the recurring problem. After all, they say that old habits die hard, right? Instead of complaining, why not be a man, take a tiny step, and point yourself in a different direction? DON'T go for overly sexy/hot/beautiful women. They will turn you down if you are nice, yes because they are used to men hounding them day and night. I love how you all throw those high numbers out there, like 95% of women this, and 90% of women that - you can't generalize an entire sex in that way. I just don't understand this mentality. I have lots of male friends, and I have NEVER heard this argument before. Never have I seen a man act like a d*ck towards a girl he liked to get her to stay interested. Are we in highschool? This is absurd!
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