norajane Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 So many (not all) women see lack of interest as attractive, manly, mysterious, etc...and yet they see interest as needy, desperate, and unattractive. Thus they chase Mr Hard-To-Get... Yeah, that's exactly what calizaggy is doing. Chasing Ms. Hard to Get and painting the others as psycho, clingy, needy.
norajane Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Well, women with intimacy issues will pursue married men. Because they are emotionally unavailable. Yes, that is correct. They also pursue men who are age inappropriate, geographically unavailable, etc. Men do that as well.
RedDevil66 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 women bashing threads........how original!
RedDevil66 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Most women have rock bottom self esteem which makes them seek out drama and challenges. this should real PEOPLE, not women! I know PLENTLY of men with ZERO self worth. I'm 43 and been around to see the depth of people in general.
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 this should real PEOPLE, not women! I know PLENTLY of men with ZERO self worth. I'm 43 and been around to see the depth of people in general. Yeh the difference is though a guy with low self esteem wont go after a b*tch who spits on him. He'll still want a sweet girl.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Yeh the difference is though a guy with low self esteem wont go after a b*tch who spits on him. He'll still want a sweet girl. :lmao: Bahahahahaha! Now THAT is the funniest double standard I have read today. And I totally DISagree. What a load. I've lost count since being on this board how many doormat men I have seen - their women treating them like ****, but she walks on water, or some crap. :love: Where in the hell do you think the term DOORMAT came from? The exact type of men you are claiming do not exist.
RedDevil66 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Yeh the difference is though a guy with low self esteem wont go after a b*tch who spits on him. He'll still want a sweet girl. No, a guy with no self worth will only stalk her, obsess over her, snoop and abuse her. Life is not as black and white as you think. I've NEVER EVER spit on any man with low self worth. And I'm a woman, go figure, that busts all these stupid theories in here And I am drop dead beautiful and don't have sh*tty self worth..............go figure again!
Author calizaggy Posted December 18, 2009 Author Posted December 18, 2009 Yeah, that's exactly what calizaggy is doing. Chasing Ms. Hard to Get and painting the others as psycho, clingy, needy. I did not call any of the women names.. Others started to do that..My point was they are regular women. I was being sarcastic. I was not chasing ms hard to get, I was simply acting in a normal fashion.. It seems something in women is "set off" for lack of a better term when you appear not to want them. Perhaps not enough drama if you are Mr reliable who knows what he wants.
RedDevil66 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I did not call any of the women names.. Others started to do that..My point was they are regular women. I was being sarcastic. I was not chasing ms hard to get, I was simply acting in a normal fashion.. It seems something in women is "set off" for lack of a better term when you appear not to want them. Perhaps not enough drama if you are Mr reliable who knows what he wants. this is biological..........women chose the men who are alpha males. This ensures the species. I agree, many women like the bad boys who are hard to get, but it has NOTHING to do with low self worth and everything to do with biology
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 :lmao: Bahahahahaha! Now THAT is the funniest double standard I have read today. And I totally DISagree. What a load. I've lost count since being on this board how many doormat men I have seen - their women treating them like ****, but she walks on water, or some crap. :love: Where in the hell do you think the term DOORMAT came from? The exact type of men you are claiming do not exist. OK more specific: Mabye a fat ugly loser guy would be a doormat, just like a fat ugly girl would be a doormat (both have no options, and no choice). But pretty girl vs handsome man...when have you seen the handsome man put up with a fat, abusive ugly chick? Yeh, thats right. Never. Even if the handsome man has low self esteem. Now on to the pretty girl...ever see one with an ugly, fat, abusive guy? Yup. All the time. Get it? Get what I'm saying? Pretty girl has all the options in the world but CHOOSES to be spit on. A guy who being spit on, usually has little choice or no other options available to him.
McGrupp Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 YOU EVER DOC LOVE ON ASKMEN. COM he preaches the way your acting and look at the proof i lost my relationship because i became to much of a "nice guy" always stay a challenge to them
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 this is biological..........women chose the men who are alpha males. This ensures the species. I agree, many women like the bad boys who are hard to get, but it has NOTHING to do with low self worth and everything to do with biology You're saying loving bad boys is "normal" then? And that women should avoid the nice guys? Wow. At least you admit it, respect for that. Don't agree at all by the way, loving bad boys is all about having no respect for yourself. Which is 95% of women. Are you saying nice guys can't impregnate a woman? LOL. We are not animals. We are humans with brains. The "biology" excuse doesnt fly. Its 2009 A.D., not 12,000 B.C.
RedDevil66 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 OK more specific: Mabye a fat ugly loser guy would be a doormat, just like a fat ugly girl would be a doormat (both have no options, and no choice). wow!!!!!!!! You have a lot of growing up to do! I know some very unattractive overweight people in super happy/healthy relationships
RedDevil66 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 (edited) You're saying loving bad boys is "normal" then? And that women should avoid the nice guys? Wow. At least you admit it, respect for that. Don't agree at all by the way, loving bad boys is all about having no respect for yourself. Which is 95% of women. Are you saying nice guys can't impregnate a woman? LOL. We are not animals. We are humans with brains. The "biology" excuse doesnt fly. Its 2009 A.D., not 12,000 B.C. I'm guessing the average age of the boys in here is less than 20 yrs old! Edited December 18, 2009 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Author calizaggy Posted December 18, 2009 Author Posted December 18, 2009 The problem is that when you want a relationship, and really do like the girl, it is more difficult to ignore her calls and messages for weeks. You are kind of thinking "Maybe this one will be different", or "If I blow her off I might not get another chance" It is just so opposite of what women claim to want.. A nice, caring, attentive, sweet guy, etc etc..
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 wow!!!!!!!! You have a lot of growing up to do! I know some very unattractive overweight people in super happy/healthy relationships Yes, with other overweight unattractive people. They are "happy as can be" but would die for an attractive signifigant other.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I'll probably get a violation for this, but it's worth it You're an idiot! I'm guessing the average age of the boys in here is less than 20 yrs old! :laugh: Quoted for truth. I'll probably get a violation for quoting your insult. And I don't care. LOL
betamanlet Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 The problem is that when you want a relationship, and really do like the girl, it is more difficult to ignore her calls and messages for weeks. You are kind of thinking "Maybe this one will be different", or "If I blow her off I might not get another chance" It is just so opposite of what women claim to want.. A nice, caring, attentive, sweet guy, etc etc.. well, people eventually get married, and if a g uy proposes, it pretty much says "hi, I'm not a challenge, I want to be with you, and nobody else"... How they get to that point, I don't know.
bbasher75 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 The problem is that when you want a relationship, and really do like the girl, it is more difficult to ignore her calls and messages for weeks. You are kind of thinking "Maybe this one will be different", or "If I blow her off I might not get another chance" It is just so opposite of what women claim to want.. A nice, caring, attentive, sweet guy, etc etc.. Yep, you hear all this sh*t about how they want "a loving nice guy". But they dont. I just met a really nice looking, sweet girl. I'm gonna send her a text right now telling her how ugly her hair looked the other night when we met. That should get her hot for me.
betamanlet Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Yes, with other overweight unattractive people. They are "happy as can be" but would die for an attractive signifigant other. I actually see very overweight women with in shape guys all the time here in DC
xpaperxcutx Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I doubt there's a dictionary in this world that defines masculinity with the word nice. That's the difference between a self professed bad boy vs nice guy. The bad boy maintain his individual freedom while the nice guy loses his all for the sake of chasing and keeping a woman. I think most women just doesn't like to feel smothered, at least I don't.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 calizaggy, betamanlet, bbasher...time to form a daisy chain. You're all PERFECT for each other. Circle jerk! Woohoo.
Author calizaggy Posted December 18, 2009 Author Posted December 18, 2009 I doubt there's a dictionary in this world that defines masculinity with the word nice. That's the difference between a self professed bad boy vs nice guy. The bad boy maintain his individual freedom while the nice guy loses his all for the sake of chasing and keeping a woman. I think most women just doesn't like to feel smothered, at least I don't. I agree with this, and this is why men choose to(or should) play the field. Then men are blamed for being players, but who cares.. That's the man women want to land.
RedDevil66 Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 :laugh: Quoted for truth. I'll probably get a violation for quoting your insult. And I don't care. LOL Thanks for going down with me ;-) this thread is over for me, I feel like I am trying to debate with 10 yr old spoiled kids. These guys will be single living with their mothers when they are 45
sally4sara Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Thanks for going down with me ;-) this thread is over for me, I feel like I am trying to debate with 10 yr old spoiled kids. These guys will be single living with their mothers when they are 45 I'm betting if any of their mothers' heard what they say on here, they would die of shame. I know I'd be hugely disappointed if I heard my son talk this way.
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