Tad Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 Hey.. well, first off I'm a dude Not that it should matter. I'm also pretty old, so why this is bothering me, I don't know. I'm in a weird phase of life, midlife crises. Lost job and I think that's what's setting it off. It's was sort of my fault, losing the job, but I did it for what I thought was a noble cause. And I had a backup plan anyway, financially, so I felt I could afford to lose it. I wasn't happy there. But, it was probably a good job that I let go... So, honestly, she was great about it. I remember, that night I got home, she was there.. and I felt like that was a sign that, you know, she's a good one. Never seemed bothered. But one time she mentioned it, and seemed weird.. just for a second, I got a vibe of her thinking if I don't get one, she'll move on. Like in her tone... But I let it pass, cause it was only that. This is the first time she hasn't replied in days. I know I'm just freaking out and the job situation.. plus some other family issues... I'll be alright. I just wish I wasn't feeling like such a teenager right now.
Kantor Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 Sounds like you have a lot of stress in your life. Whether you see it or not it really affects your relationships. Try talking to her more openly about the situation is the only thing I can even think to recommend. You've seen a whole lot in your life more then I have, so I'm probably not one to give advice in this situation, but all I know is communication is key in everything we do in life. Good Luck.
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