tonyeltiger Posted December 20, 2003 Posted December 20, 2003 Hey, this is my first time posting here so here it goes. I've benn dating this girl for 3 months now and everything is going great. We've already been kissing and stuff like that since around our 1 month anniversary. I enjoy showing her affection so i usually have an arm around her or holding hands or something of that nature. The thing is that she also shows me affection....just not as much as i do. I absolutely love it when she does. I mean, we don't have problems showing each other how we feel and occasionally she'll try to make me feel loved. I was just wondering....what would be a good way for me to show or tell her that i would like for her to wrap her arms around me ( and stuff like that) for a change? Thanks for ur help in advance!
dyermaker Posted December 20, 2003 Posted December 20, 2003 Don't do it so much, she'll wonder where it went, and she'll seek it. Or, you could be honest, and communicate with her. Both would work somewhat, can you guess which I prefer?
Haushinka Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 ok, here's my story. it may not be true for your girlfriend, but anyways: I really like and care for my boyfriend, and i know he feels the same way and all that. But sometimes i can gt really nervous around him and im too scared to just grab his hand, or touch him or kiss him, even though i know he loves it when i do because i love it when he does. I guess i just need to get over some shyness or fear or something holding me back...like i said, it may not be true for your girl, but this could possibly be a reason. next time she shows affection, just tell her 'i love it when u do that'. then shell wanna do it more, b/c she knows you love it. hope i helped.
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