lovely aries Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 OK so my bf of one year (we are in a long distance relationship) has a bm whom they was never a couple. They was friends with benefits and she got prego. So later we met...year later she wants to buy him and his lil girl everything. it pisses me off because it seems as if she wants to buy him from me. He's wants to marry me but she won't accept that he won't give her a chance. So this Christmas she surprise him with a pool table which cost alot! i was pissed I know darn well if i accept a gift like lets say diamond necklace from a guy friend he would flip especially if he couldn't afford it.. Am i wrong for tripping? Am i wrong for feeling hurt? Am i wrong for not wanting him to keep it even tho he did? Should it be OK to accept gifts just because she his bm and he did for her before we was together?...
sugarmomma Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 He did what! I wouldn't go for that monkeyball s**t!!
boogieboy Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 You have to re-evaluate your relationship if you are insecure about being able to keep your BF long distance. You cant stop him from doing what he wants..Let him accept the pool table. If his ex is stupid enough to keep trying, and he wants to let her, theres nothing you can do to make him NOT want to talk to her. If he knocked her up, he has to deal with her whether you like it or not. Only thing you can do is encourage him to move in with you, away from her.
Author lovely aries Posted December 17, 2009 Author Posted December 17, 2009 @ suggamamma...LLS @ the other kat..you started off ok but ended ignorant..why would i think moving a man with me would solve anything..besides we are military he is already four states over and she is in another state as well....
sugarmomma Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 How did he respond when you expressed how you felt about him receiving gifts from someone he wasn't in a r with?
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