Terry23 Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 So this is going to be pretty long, so be ready. So I'm 18 years of age. I'm in my Senior year of High School. And before you say it I know I have a long time to go. So this girl is in my second period, we talked, we began to talk more, I knew she liked me, I didn't really like her like that. We hung out and I asked her out because she was a nice girl, and she was pretty. So basically after a month or so of her liking me, I asked her out. Anyways, we go out for two months. At the end of the relationship, she begins pushing herself away, and I know she is going to break up with me, but I don't really want to see that, you know? Well it's November 24th, and we have the talk. She basically says she is bipolar and she isn't happy, which was total bull, so she asks what would you call this? I said guess we break up. She says we can still be friends. I agreed. Mistake I know. So she starts talking to another guy. It's a rebound I don't let it get to me, but the feeling of freedom I get from being single fades and I begin to realize how much I really like her and miss her. So it's decent but the week later somewhere between Dec 4-6 I tell her I don't want anything to do with her or talk to her to be friends with her. She then gets all upset, and I'm too nice of a guy to stick with it so I say I'm sorry. I gave the friend thing a try, realizing if I couldn't have her I'd still want her as a friend. I started talking to another girl I work with. I don't like her but I wanted to hang out with her. She begins hanging out with her ex-boyfriend who she went out with for a year and a half. She tells me she loves him. So my friend talks to her and she says she loves me, just not the way I want her to. So she tells him I want to be his friend. My friend tells her you can't have what you want, he wants you but can't have you, you want him as a friend but you can't have that. Then she goes on to say I don't want to lose him. So basically I'm starting NC, since we no longer have the class. I'm sort of afraid she will be like fine and move on and date her ex-boyfriend, since she loves him. Help any input is nice. I really want to be with her, more than a friend, but she says she broke up with me because she realized I'm more of a friend, we had sex, and I thought we were beginning to love each other.
boogieboy Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 Shes completely full of it and you know it. All you can do is stay strong and keep NC until she says she wants to try again. Because once women lose interest in you emotionally they dont get it back ever again. So if you keep talking to her and reminding her of your presence she will never miss you. Thats your only chance. If she moves on, theres nothing you can do. Let her go.
neoskunk Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 i would let it go. pretend you are not interested in her at all. go NC and don't let up until she tells you she wants you back. i promise you as much as you try you cannot make her like you. she will have to figure that out on her own. also another word of advice...you are young....and starting something at 18 is foolish if you plan on going to college. you probably won't see each other then and there will be tons of other girls for you to choose from. trust me, im 20 and i had been dating my gf since we were sophomres in high school. we then decided to go to the same college (awful mistake i now realize). last month she broke up with me. people change A LOT when they go to college. i would try and have as much fun as you can your senior year, don't worry about this chick.
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