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Once again, I have no girlfriend for Christmas or New Years


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Like every other year in life, but I'm Jewish anyways, so the christmas thing isn't a big deal anyways. Those of you complaining about not getting gifts, not getting good enough gifts, the ONLY holiday I ever experience with a girlfriend, I got dumped on the spot for someone else. Valentines day. Don't take for granted what you have.

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you can go to israel, there are plenty of single jewish girls there

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I don't really mind being single on Holidays. It gives me peace to know I won't have to spend money on someone else. I remember the last time I spend Christmas with an SO was two years ago. It wasn't anything significant, we were company to help each other past the time. Sex was great, but otherwise, there's nothing really that I miss.

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and just how do you know how tall he is??

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this will be the first xmas/NYE that I havent had a significant other. i'm pretty bummed about it....but nothing you can do to control it really.

 

im dating, but don't think it will happen that fast!

 

hang in there...you aren't alone. those who do have sig. others, be very thankful for them.

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Well, at least you don't have to waste your money on a gift that will be used once and discarded never to be used again o.O

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Schwarzenegger voice: "Stop Whining!"

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Schwarzenegger voice: "Stop Whining!"

 

Win.

 

 

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That means$$$$ for you to spend on yourself.

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I'm not single this holiday season, but I didn't totally not enjoy being single on other holiday seasons. Granted I didn't have a lot of interest in NYE because it's become a big couples night.

 

I just put silver linings on the dark clouds...

 

  1. I don't have to go to anyone's parents or shuffle around homes on the holiday.
  2. I don't have to be pressured to "find something good to do" on NYE and come up with the money for it. Most places have a $100 cover.
  3. Less gifts to buy, so more money in my pocket.
  4. More time for me...because I'm not being dragged off to holiday events and parties.
  5. No pressure to "get the gift right" for her.

Believe me, I see more people bitch and gripe about their RLs now than praise it. Guys who wish they didn't have to spend the cash on the big NYE event, some who wish they were single so they could check out some other women. Women who complain how he didn't do this or buy her that and even some shallow ones who bitch how he didn't spend enough money on her.

 

I'm not knocking my own RL...but there are silver linings to being single if you seek them out.

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Look on the bright side. You don't have to spend any time with her family. I should be so blessed.

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WOW! You make it sound like holidays totally suck for you. It doesn't have to be that way dude! Get together with your close friends and family, the ones who actually care about YOU and enjoy your holiday. You will eventually meet someone to share these times with....Hang tough!

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Sorry to hear that. I hope things will change for you!

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I'm in the same boat. Never spent a holiday with anyone. The holidays are about sharing your love without it your just watching others exchange there effection. Who cares about money. I wish I could spend my money on someone.

 

O well. Go take a few shots. I know that's what I'll be doing everytime I see a couple kiss.

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hey everyone.its not just about giving gifts.its jesus birthday.cant we all just elps be happy that he gave us life.im alone on the holidays.but i just keep a possitive attitue.we all get through it.remember the saying be happy.hope all of you have a very happy holidays.keep the faith it really :)

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Once again, I have nno girlfriend for Christmas or New Years
But....did you not say you did not want a girlfriend, anyway until you leave or something? so what's up?
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you can go to israel, there are plenty of single jewish girls there

:laugh:

 

Yeah theyll think youre a hot rebel if you celebrate Christmas

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You should take her to the Jerusalem Mosque wearing a Santa Claus hat while listening to the Revolting Cocks on your iPod

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You should take her to the Jerusalem Mosque wearing a Santa Claus hat while listening to the Revolting Cocks on your iPod

 

ahhhh burning for revenge.....always being such a smarta$$...:laugh:..a mosque, huh? Let's see...a Jewish man, wearing a santa hat in a mosque on a date with a jewish girl....might work!

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Like every other year in life, but I'm Jewish anyways, so the christmas thing isn't a big deal anyways. Those of you complaining about not getting gifts, not getting good enough gifts, the ONLY holiday I ever experience with a girlfriend, I got dumped on the spot for someone else. Valentines day. Don't take for granted what you have.

 

Well sucks for you...

 

I've never had a boyfriend for Valentine's or New Year's now that I think of it. All the boyfriends I had I either broke up with right before Christmas or got together with them after Valentine's day. Personally though I'm just looking forward to Valentine's Day this year. :love: Well and New Years so I'll have someone to kiss at midnight.

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