skylarblue Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Originally Posted by 2sunny skylar, what does a guy specifically get for a lap dance and what does is entitled to get for spending 150-250 for his 1/2 of time? Some clubs and girls are more strict, some are more lax. I’m only speaking from my experience which was the “typical” dancer in the clubs I’ve worked. Your x-H pretty much told you truth about how the dancing could be in champagne rooms, minus the few differences I mentioned in the previously. That’s pretty much what the guy gets. A raunchy, in your face, kinda simulated sex type thing. The price may vary by girl or club. The guy can buy more expensive champagne or the girl can charge more. The minimum was set by the clubs, usually $150 - $40/bottle, $100/girl, $10/server. what is the champagne room and what happens there as opposed to the environment for a lap dance? is the lap dance done in the open where others can see - or are they alone, with the bouncer off to the side? have the men ever touched or sucked while having a lap dance with you? do things happen that aren't supposedly allowed? Champagne rooms are individual private areas like small cubicles. In general, he gets a raunchier, more “hands on” experience. Booths, depending on the club’s layout and size, are loveseats set around like theater seats, but spaces in b/t or a separate area that’s not in the “open” but not behind a wall like champagnes rooms. Anybody walking by can see in, and it’s communal so there could be several dancers with customers in there. Mostly guys can’t touch you on the floor. They have to keep their hands on the couch. Some clubs you have to wear g-strings and some you can’t front straddle him on the floor. The rules are different in champagnes rooms. They have to be or the customers wouldn’t see a benefit to going in there. Certain rules are somewhat overlooked (how slightly depends on the club) if you don’t get to close to crossing the line. And no, I didn’t allow guys to put there mouth on any part of my body. Yuck! while giving a lap dance - can you tell how big/small a man is, how hard he is? are they allowed to rub themselves while you do your thing? are you allowed to touch them in places you may want to? If a customer was wearing slacks I could tell what he was like or how aroused he was getting. Sometimes guys will grab your hips and kinda press you into them. No, customers aren’t allowed to touch themselves, but girls can touch him only over his clothing; she can’t touch his crotch with her hands or mouth/face.
Heroic Posted December 20, 2009 Posted December 20, 2009 Everyone is blowing this way out of proportion. She didn't know what happens at a club and gave the go ahead. It's silly and stupid to go to a strip club let alone get a lap dance. So just tell him your not comfortable with him in that environment. Problem solved. Now if he goes back after you have discussed this then you have issues.
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