Lovestinks76 Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Greetings, Will you break no contact with a short Merry Christmas email and if so, will it count as breaking no contact? I am on the fence.
teanoranges Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 I will not break NC on christmas (unless he does, which I doubt) I would count it as breaking though, if I did.. but I'm not so oh well.
USMCHokie Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 It counts. I won't be breaking...I don't think anything would make me break NC with her...except her talking to me first...
blinded Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 It breaks NC. As much as I don't want to break it, I know I want to. But I want him to contact me more. So maybe I won't.
adamt Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 dont send a card. it will not make them come back. it would take more than a poxy ard to get them to change their mind. they will already know how you feel so a poxy card will not suddenly swing it and make them fall ack inlove with you. you have nothing to gain and everything to lose by sending it. Don't give them the satisfaction of knowing that you are not over them yet.
teanoranges Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Are they going to send you one? I've had my birthday come and go without a peep from my ex. Same with thanksgiving. I'm sure christmas will be the same... why bother if they don't care?
curiousnycgirl Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 It counts. I won't be breaking...I don't think anything would make me break NC with her...except her talking to me first... This (but change the hers to hims)!
Kantor Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 It counts. I won't be breaking...I don't think anything would make me break NC with her...except her talking to me first... Exactly, enough said.
soheartbroken Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I will never break NC unless she does first. And she won't.
GrayClouds Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I will never break NC unless she does first. And she won't. I suggest an NCC* tattoo on your head for anyone who does not keep no contact. *No Contact Christmas . /\.\
pureinheart Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 It breaks NC. As much as I don't want to break it, I know I want to. But I want him to contact me more. So maybe I won't. I really like your reply....lol...it's how I feel too...along with a million other emotions. Yes it breaks the NC, and I won't....I've come too far and am doing much better, I don't "feel" it yet, but it's happening without my knowledge.
ditched Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 ha. im glad someone posted this. i've been thinking about this since like...September!!!!! I want to text or email a Merry Christmas, or a Happy New year or anything. but i'm resolved to not do it! The problem is that there is this tiny part of me that is hoping so much that she is gonna contact me. And that tiny part of me just will not listen to reason: that i'm just setting myself up to ruin these holidays on my own. or at least make them harder than they're already going to be. New Years is gonna blow!!!! and my first thought of the new year is going to be, "i wonder where she is, who she is with, and who got to give her the first new years kiss" i'm actually just thinking about taking control of it and just sleeping through it. okay im babbling.... carry on...
silic0ntoad Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 Nope. It's been 7 months. I expect silence from her camp. I will not send her a card, an email, a text, nor call her. If she does contact me, I will not reply. She won't contact me, however. I am sure she is all wrapped up with her new, short, chubby BF to bother with my tall, slender, dark haired self. o.O But whatever. The holidays are all phony. No one celebrates christmas for what it's made to be, it's just another american corporate holiday.
prayingshecomesback Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 5-6 months of no contact...lol the chance of her contacting me on christmas is zero. I wont be contacting her. I will be sending my holiday wishes to the loveshack community instead
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