Yukikazi Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 (edited) Ok I got a # from a girl this saturday night and we texted back and forth a couple times after we parted ways.. nothing major.. just hey where you at../mexican resturant/ cool have good night basicly. Sent another few txt's back and forth monday to keep the memories of me fresh in her mind and make her laugh over something we chatted about on saturday.. 6 texts total.. Tried to call her later that night.. got no VM.. just music after a few rings. Tried to call her Tuesday but no VM or answer.. just a few rings then music. Texted her teasing her about her VM music and she responded apologizing and she was dealing with car troubles. I started to send a txt back about 20 minutes later when the same txt came in again. (Dunno if she sent it twice or it just due to a system glitch). So i responded with something about hoping she wasn't stuck outside with her trouble. I left it at that as if she is dealing with her car troubles I don't wanna bug her.. was sorta hoping/figureing since I mentioned her VM music she would get the hint that I tried to call and maybe try to call me back. Nope.. nada. So today (since I wanna ask her to join me for a xmas market thing tomorrow evening, and coffee/tea), I wanna talk to her already cause I'd like to ask her to join me for a trip to a xmas market and a cup of coffee or something. Nothing fancy.. just a cup of cocoa, or coffee while looking at the xmas stuff (I intend to buy 2 gifts there hence the reason for the trip) But due to the "rules" of dating and calling someone back.. this one is screwing up the whole timeline/procedure. I am thinking I'm gonna send her a txt today "Will I be listening to more mexican xmas music if I try to call you again tonight?" or "As much as I like your taste in hold music.. I think I'd rather hear your voice instead" *Must be flirty and funny but still get the point across* or something to that effect.. I haven't figured out the exact wording I want to use yet. (Ladies any tips on how to phrase this are appreciated) Normally this isn't a problem but normally I at least get to a VM so I can say something. I want to get the hell off the txting and get her on the phone then out in person.. txting is the path to the FZ and I don't wanna go there but the longer this takes the closer it gets. I can only assume she is aware that I tried twice to call but I can't confirm that.. she may not know at all except for my mentioning of her VM music. And anyone thats gonna tell me to next her can get stuffed.. I'm not gonna next someone I haven't had a chance to talk to yet, was touchy and flirty and still has positive response... Edited December 16, 2009 by Yukikazi
Author Yukikazi Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 Maybe.. "OMG CALL YOUR BF ALREADY" The bf thing is a joke from the night we met when I was chatting her up.. kinda keep her in that mindset
carhill Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Truth: If the phone's text function works, the audio function works. Truth: I was stranded with a broken cam belt 20 miles from town and simply called the transporter, then called a couple of friends and shot the breeze while waiting, then took the car home and fixed it. Phones have bluetooth earbuds so I could talk with people while fixing it. The woman is a flake. Don't waste your time with her. Next.
jerbear Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 The woman is a flake. Don't waste your time with her. Next. I disagree. The OP and the woman is in a different generation. Texting is common and replaced the telephone. Just like emails replaced the art of letter writing.
Author Yukikazi Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 As I said.. I'm not nexting her yet.. She is younger then I am so txting is more natural to her.. I have no problems with it but that first phone call has to occur asap. But yea I'm sorta thinking now along the lines of Joolies idea.. Be funny but still tell her to call me. Just drop the ball in her court and see what she does... The results of that would determine NEXT or not.
carhill Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 I disagree. The OP and the woman is in a different generation. Texting is common and replaced the telephone. Just like emails replaced the art of letter writing. OK, to disagree, but you're wrong. I'm 50 and embrace all forms of communication and have the intelligence to understand when I'm being bullshyted. That's what age indicates
Author Yukikazi Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 (edited) *brainstorming possible txt messages* "So what button do I push to get you on the phone?" This will be the final attempt to get her on the phone.. if it doesn't work tonight.. backing off till she decides to make an effort... if ever... *shrug* So need to word it to basically say "Balls in your court babe.. your turn to make an effort" but in a fun and flirty way. --------------------- Am leaning towards Luv your hold musik.. but what button do I push to get a live operator? Edited December 16, 2009 by Yukikazi
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