angeliaindeed Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 it's been months now and i still think about him everyday. he said he was always gonna be my friend after we broke but he won't even talk to me he ignores me to everything.. even really sincere things. i can tell from his fb he's having so much fun w/ life and a new girl and friends.. it's like it doesn't even affect him. i honestly really did think he loved me he showed it before we broke up he even cried a 21 yr old cried due to our break up. and now it's like i'm the one STILL hurting and crying and he's totally fine.. i don't even cross his mind at all. i've talked about this before i've searched advice on the internet numerous times gotten advice from different ppl.. i honestly don't know what to do anymore. i hate feeling this way if i could i would just delete him from my mind entirely. i don't underestand how he can be living the good life and having all the fun and i'm still thinking about him wasting my time.. i need help and time is just not being fast enough
Odyssey Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 How long were you together? Why did you two breakup? Are you in constant contact with him? What other advice have you heard?
teanoranges Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Wow, right there with you. My ex has a new girl and I'm sure he's living his life fully and happily as if him and I never happened. But then again, when I'm fully moved on I'll be in the same place as him, so can I really blame him? or people for that matter on forgetting. Its tough. Especially missing who you thought they were. The thing I'm starting to realize is how true all the cliche relationship things people talk about. Seriously, it always happens the same way, its surprising how we all fall for the same thing. In the end, I don't think there's any kind of love that's really unique. Sorry, just writing out my thoughts. Its best to try to move on. Its a waste of precious time.
sugarmomma Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 I know how hard it is to get someone of the mind. You have to learn to redirest your thought whn he comes in your mind. Join a gym or start a hobby. You have to fill your time with activities that will raise your esteem and make you feel more confident. J ust know that it was his loss and sometimes man's rejection is God's protection. Maybe he is gone to make room for someone who really deserves you.
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