rockymountainhigh Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 So I met this girl 3 or 4 weeks ago. She is related to my boss and we met while I was doing some work on her parents house. I was attracted to her the minute I saw her and made small talk with her but nothing came of it. The next week my boss tells me that she thought I was cute and wanted to hang out. So I got her number and we texted back and forth a little and had our first date last Friday. We went out for dinner and a movie. We talked and laughed and smiled at each other at dinner. Things were going great and off to the movies we went. I put my hand on her leg during the movie with no response at all. It was awkward so I took the hand away. No big deal. On the way back to her place the conversation was still going good. I walked her to the door and we said our goodbyes. She told me to call her so we could go out again. I could have swore the look in her eyes was telling me to kiss her so I went for it and she turned so I kissed her cheek. I was a little embarassed and made an awkward goodbye. I text her Sunday to say I had a great time and she thanked me for dinner but seemed a little short. Though all of our text conversations seem that way. I wasn't feeling a great vibe from the texts so I thought maybe I was too pushy trying to kiss her, but, the next day my bosses wife came and told me that she hadsaid she hopes I call for another date. Are these mixed signals? Or am I looking too deep into this? The date went great and I thought we were conecting. Should I still call her for another date?
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Sure, why not? Maybe she was just nervous about the physical contact on the first date. Those first touches/kisses can be awkward. I'd give it at least one more date.
callingyouuu Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Definitely sounds like you should keep going for it! Her parents know her better than you do, so they might be able to give you better insight into what she's thinking. Just be aware that in the long run you should be looking for positive signals from her, not her parents.
bac Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 I guess many nice girls have problems to kiss on the first dates. I can not kiss a guy on the first date even if I like him. In general, if she likes you and she sees you as a serious thing, she is not going to be easy about sexual things. But, it is just a generalization and IRL smth else can happen. For example, there is a 3/5 dates rule before having sex with a guy. The point is that if you do not follow the rule, a guy will believe that you are promiscuous.
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