CLC2008 Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 But but why are we getting along? Men and women are suppose to be at war. I think this just proves our theory...
Author Kamille Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 Haha! I am the master of disguise! Yeah, Pyro.... I worry that all this playful bantering is hampering the gender war.
Pyro Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 I think this just proves our theory... According to certain individuals, you are just pretending to like me, when in reality you will crush all my hopes and dreams.
Author Kamille Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 Kamille:eek: That avvie has been retired. Well. Magichands and I eloped digitally to Paris one time, so, in LS legalese, I am officially Mrs. Magichands.
kizik Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Kamille is one of the best examples on the site of someone who truly, really does not depend on a man and relationships to make her happy. When you're single and ready to mingle, though, things look bleak, and it's hard to imagine I wouldn't be happier if I didn't have a kick-ass girlfriend.
Pyro Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Well. Magichands and I eloped digitally to Paris one time, so, in LS legalese, I am officially Mrs. Magichands. Fair enough. You have the rights to his estate and personal property. How are Tragicglands and Pelagicsands doing?
CLC2008 Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 According to certain individuals, you are just pretending to like me, when in reality you will crush all my hopes and dreams. Round faces with no eyebrows = hot!
kizik Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 it's hard to imagine I wouldn't be happier if I had a kick-ass girlfriend. Fixed my post
Pyro Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Round faces with no eyebrows = hot! Its the wax job isn't it?
Author Kamille Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 Kamille is one of the best examples on the site of someone who truly, really does not depend on a man and relationships to make her happy. When you're single and ready to mingle, though, things look bleak, and it's hard to imagine I wouldn't be happier if I didn't have a kick-ass girlfriend. I understand that feeling. I've had it in the past - but it's fleeting. It doesn't inform my whole world-view and I certainly don't let it influence how much fun I will have when I'm out with friends and family. And just a reminder: just because I don't depend on a man to make me happy, it doesn't mean I don't know how to appreciate having a man in my life. It's almost the opposite: not needing someone makes having someone all the more sweet.
Author Kamille Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 Round faces with no eyebrows = hot! You should have met Pyro when he was green!:
CLC2008 Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Its the wax job isn't it? It's so...ummm...bare....
Pyro Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 You should have met Pyro when he was green!: :love: Got a tan and turned orange.
norajane Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 And just a reminder: just because I don't depend on a man to make me happy, it doesn't mean I don't know how to appreciate having a man in my life. It's almost the opposite: not needing someone makes having someone all the more sweet. You really do put up a great front! Face it, Kamille, having a life, a job, friends and family so you aren't actually dependent on your guy for everything just means you'll soon become a walkaway gf and crush his hopes and dreams for no reason. You're probably already having an affair with some guy at work and have figured out how to take all your bf's money and leave him penniless too. And you'll probably take his boom box, too, so when he stands in front of your house trying to win you back, he'll have to sing Peter Gabriel's "In Your Eyes".
Pyro Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 And you'll probably take his boom box, too, so when he stands in front of your house trying to win you back, he'll have to sing Peter Gabriel's "In Your Eyes". No, the more he treats her like crap and avoids her, the more she will want him back.
jerbear Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 You really do put up a great front! Face it, Kamille, having a life, a job, friends and family so you aren't actually dependent on your guy for everything just means you'll soon become a walkaway gf and crush his hopes and dreams for no reason. You're probably already having an affair with some guy at work and have figured out how to take all your bf's money and leave him penniless too. And you'll probably take his boom box, too, so when he stands in front of your house trying to win you back, he'll have to sing Peter Gabriel's "In Your Eyes". :lmao::lmao: oh boy!
jerbear Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 No, the more he treats her like crap and avoids her, the more she will want him back. Or have someone serve him with a restraining order paid with "his money" :lmao:
norajane Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 No, the more he treats her like crap and avoids her, the more she will want him back. Of course! You're right! But it will be too late, because he'll already be dating an Asian/South American woman who will cater to his every wish and not be the least bit materialistic.
Author Kamille Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao: you guys are awesome! :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:
Pyro Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Of course! You're right! But it will be too late, because he'll already be dating an Asian/South American woman who will cater to his every wish and not be the least bit materialistic. Nonsense. Every single woman is the exact same way and if you put up a good argument I will ignore your post.
Author Kamille Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 Nonsense. Every single woman is the exact same way and if you put up a good argument I will ignore your post. don't forget to tell me I'm too selfish to realize that I'm completely delusional before dismissing what I have to say.
Green Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 I think every human is unique and different from the next and find that while men and women are different on some fronts, they actually have a lot more in common. What isn't going to happen? I'm happy now, madly in love with my bf now, in love with life now. I have been in love with life for the last 14 years or so, a third of which I spent single. Should I stop enjoying life now to focus worrying about the future? Truth be told... I don't know if bf and I will make it past my move to Europe. But I sure love having him in my life right now and wouldn't trade that for the world. I don't know what the future holds and I don't expect well-being and happiness to be ever lasting. It comes and it goes, but happiness, like everything else, takes practice. I know what makes me happy. It's really simple. It's eating right, great conversations, exercise, laughter, great sex (and great self-gratification too:p!), good meals, good friends, etc etc. It's much easier dealing with the dating world once you realize your well-being doesn't depend on it. It depends on being able to take care of yourself. the bonus? This approach to life allows you to cope with life's challenges more successfully then if you're anxiety ridden. I've seen scientific reasearch that says humans are only 96% geneticaly different then chimpanzees... and even less different then some other apes. The point I'm making is that small differences can make very big differences. Men and Women are very different, yes both are people and both bleed, ****, sleep and eat but the emotions and natures are different. The goals of their lives are different. Enemies is probably the wrong adjective but to say men and women have nothing to debate about would be a great oversimplification of how the genders see the world and prioritize things. In your case I would say ignorance is bliss because for all you know your views on this tommorow might not be so cheery. These men and women who post on here have been through things you have not and until you try to understand them instead of debate them your analysis is ........
norajane Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Nonsense. Every single woman is the exact same way and if you put up a good argument I will ignore your post. It's so sad. Men just want to be the breadwinner and come home to a nice accommodating wife who has dinner on the table and sweetly smelling babies tucked in their cribs, but there are no good women left in the world. Except one. And she's suspect, too, sometimes.
Author Kamille Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 In your case I would say ignorance is bliss because for all you know your views on this tommorow might not be so cheery. These men and women who post on here have been through things you have not and until you try to understand them instead of debate them your analysis is ........ What things? What I have somehow miraculously escaped? Heartbreak? Sorrow? Nope, I've known that. I haven't gone through a divorce - that's true. I am not dismissing the pain people are in. I do feel, however, that this negative stereotyping of each gender only contributes to the pain. It doesn't give anyone hope, or help anyone actually figure out how to really meet and get to know someone.
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